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By Promzy in 16 Nov 2015 | 05:37
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please my fellow coolvallers.i need your help...
i recently discovered that a very good friend of mine has been sleeping with his Aunt (hisfather'ssister)for four years now(he's 19).Not that i really discovered this, he opened up to me.quess he's tired of this secret...when he revealed this to i was shocked to the bone marrow and swore to help him stop it..i suggested he should tell his parents but that's d last thing on his mind as he vehemently refused.
i even offered to tell them myself and he blatantly declined..
i even went as far as demanding for his Aunt's phone number nd it's still the same old story..he refused. he really wish to stop this Abominable act but cannot.. in his words"when ever i want to stop this i always gets horny thereby making me to visit her..she doesn't Even want me to have a girlfriend, Always on my neck"..dear coolvallers the situation at hand now is that his parents would be travelling this next and will invite his Aunt to stay with him..And i don't think he can resist her.
please wat re your candid Advice(s).
please no insults .let's reason like matured minds alike.. promzy cares!#muah!
16 Nov 2015 | 05:37
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Gosh! This is complicated, i suggest he try as much as possible to stay away from her, you know like sleeping over in his friend's place
16 Nov 2015 | 06:33
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4 real........... He realy needs help 4 sure...........
16 Nov 2015 | 06:42
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hmmm,@promzy d best tin to do in dz kind of situation z to inform hz parents,if he cnt do dat,do it 4 im even if he does nt wants to,force im dz z d work of d devil,cn u imagine z own blood!gosh!!! for im to be able to tell u dat means he trust yhu,y cnt he nw trust z parent...to me oo,hz aunt z ready to destroy hz future,infact tz d devil work,if he doesnt want to inform hz parents by imself let im inform z pastor if hez a christain he should move closer to GOD,he nidz im nw mostly,he shud pray 4 forgiveness,i trust my God he z ready to forgive im... . . . he shud nt 4get to pray and fast.... jahbless
16 Nov 2015 | 06:49
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I guess (jst guessing doh) his aunt used something on him. Let's say if it's spiritual, den de is notin God cannot do. But first of all no mata how dificult it is, as long as he has opened up to u, he can do it to his parent n or his Pastor or spiritual leader, her shud also pray fervently and avoid any communication or contact with the aunt. I pray God delivers him @promzy
16 Nov 2015 | 06:56
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[color=black]Uhmmm sex is like addition the best way to stop is by doing it step by step. It not like a remote, that you can press the pause button whenever you wish. The first step is a getting hold on yourself(self control) it matters alot, for now u'll keep falling but since you've even taken a bolder step, which is your determination change whenever you get horny, try engaging your emotions to something else, its gonna be hard for you to concentrate @first, but try going a day with that feeling, your gonna be a mess but thats the first step in a great direction. Even when you fall again, see it as you need to be more determined, dont just go back into your shell like you've lost the battle. Thats what i fink anyway@promzy[color/]
16 Nov 2015 | 09:25
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i think dat he should pray to GOD
16 Nov 2015 | 11:38
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I think right now what he need first is to get hold of himself after dat he should try to pray and fast and stay away I mean far away from his aunt unless he will fall again
16 Nov 2015 | 12:26
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@promzy after serious prayer sessions d spirit tld me tu tell u dat he shld fast nd pray for 3 days...afta dat he shld vacate d sorroundinq where hz aunty resides..he shld stp every form of communication wit her nd it is well wit im.. @pizzaro nd @skookum pls join im in d fastinq
16 Nov 2015 | 12:27
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Incest is d greatest taboo ever for d fact dat u ar determined am sure u can stop it... Try being occupied nd avoid being alone/bored nd if dat happens jst go out nd stroll if u dnt knw wer to go jst walk around anywere nd make sure u'r really tired b4 coming back cos wen ur tired u'l jst sleep nd der wuld b no room for sexual toughts lyk d popular sayin "idole man is d devil's work shop" avoid being idole, pray seek devine intervention... B frends wit pple hu ar positive nt dos dat dai main point of discussion is sex.. B careful wif d kind of movie u watch so as nt to get horny, avoid her dnt entertain toughts bout her.. Lastly b commited to God serve him go for weekly activities nt jst sunday service am sure God wuld see u true
16 Nov 2015 | 13:13
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Cux u hav eating d forbidden fruit, but if i may ask how old is she? All i will tell u is dat try 2 control urself nd also avoid her 4 d main time mayb lik 6months 2 1year ooooo i rest my case
16 Nov 2015 | 13:24
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avoiding his aunty wnt help matters but only worsen it .. ill advise the boy in question to tell his pastor or an elderly person he can trust.. because he needs serious prayers ... he shud be ready to suffer d consequences nw while its still controllable .. but my best bet is to see a pastor,a trustworthy one and @promzy if need be.. take drastic actions that will save ur friends future ..
16 Nov 2015 | 16:53
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thanks guys... the really needs help...the Lady is still unmarried for people that re asking... I really Appreciate..hope he heeds to this..
16 Nov 2015 | 20:41
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thanks guys... the guy really needs help...the Lady is still unmarried for people that re asking... I really Appreciate..hope he heeds to this..
16 Nov 2015 | 20:41
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This is very serious.This is one of the things that hinders the success of a young man. Though many people will blame him for not opening up on time especially his parents but the best thing to do is to tell his parents and his spiritual adviser Note: Nothing is hidden forever,even if he doesn't tell them,they will still get to know one day. #My opinion though! @Promzy
17 Nov 2015 | 05:03
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d only solution iz 4 him 2 tel his parent nd enough prayer nd fasting coz i dnt tink iz ordinary
17 Nov 2015 | 08:31
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Am Short Of Words. . . .@frankkay@pizzaro Wetin U Tink Cus Dis One Don High 4 Me
17 Nov 2015 | 08:43
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thanks guys!.. d boy insisted on not telling any other person! am damn tired!
17 Nov 2015 | 10:59
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My advise to him is to see a sex counsellor they'll lead him riqht
17 Nov 2015 | 12:11
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[b] dunno what to say........ he needs our prayers..... may God have mercy on his life and that of his aunty....... the aunt might be possessed cos it ain't ordinary.......... [/b]
17 Nov 2015 | 12:53
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Wetin concern me
17 Nov 2015 | 17:23
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Prayer nd self control, I think those ar wat he need
17 Nov 2015 | 17:24
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[email protected] really made a mistake.. y not overlook it???
17 Nov 2015 | 20:08
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@krizzy
17 Nov 2015 | 20:08
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Well,he need to pray to his God
18 Nov 2015 | 04:56
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speechless!!
18 Nov 2015 | 05:34
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lol @promzy i just think that the guy is of age and knows what he is doing , u can advice him but don't u ever tell his parents , it will break him and will forever be in his memory and hunt him , think about the kind of feeling u will have if any of ur parents caught u watching porn not to talk of having sex...... #thinkaboutthat
18 Nov 2015 | 18:06
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Complicated issue. He needs God intervention nd he can also travel to one of his mum relatives pendin d time his parents wil be back
19 Nov 2015 | 03:18
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Its bad a thing like that is happening...Bt i think you can stop it without informing your parents or pastor,just imagine the shame you will go through if you do that........First you need to develop self control,and i gues you should tell her you're no more interestd,i guess telling her you have a girlfriend can also help...............
19 Nov 2015 | 04:40
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I guess telling ur parent will help
19 Nov 2015 | 06:34
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Simple.....get enough evidence and blackmail the shit out of her.
19 Nov 2015 | 10:07
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@krizzy ..really??
19 Nov 2015 | 20:37
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yeah that my candid advice @promzy
20 Nov 2015 | 14:59
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