Understanding “why girls don’t like me” can be
difficult. Not because the reasons are
complicated – but because the truth can hurt. In
order to become the guy more women are
attracted to you may have to change. I don’t
mean change into someone you’re not, just change into a better version of yourself. That being said, here are the top five
explanations for “why girls don’t like me”. If
you identify with any of these, that’s good.
That means you’re one step closer to making
that change. 1. Negative attitude Are you the kind of guy who: Plays the “victim” card and whines about
how life is so unfair? Do you think everyone
in the world has it easy except you? Actually asks people why girls don’t like me?” Is always complaining; talking about how
lame everyone and everything is? Constantly focuses on things he lacks (money, looks, a six-pack)? Do guys who think this way seem like they’d
be fun to hang out with? If you’ve got a negative attitude girls will feel
that negativity when they’re around you. Girls
don’t want to hang out with someone that puts
them in a shitty mood. She’d rather find
someone who can boost her spirits. 2. Lifestyle Is your life interesting? Are you out there living and making the best out of your situation? Do you look for new experiences, to
grow as a person, and do your best to live an
awesome, kick-ass life? The women you meet are always going to be
wondering “what does this guy have to offer?”
If you have a great life (and you DO NOT
need to be rich to live a great life) she’s going
to want to be a part of it. If you spend your
days playing xbox in your underwear and drinking til you pass out… women won’t be too
eager to join in. Ask yourself this: If a woman saw how you
spend an average week, would she want to be a part of your life? If the answer is no, what
could you do to make your life better and
therefore become more attractive? 3. Your intent When you interact with an attractive woman,
what’s your goal? If it’s “I want her to like me” then you’re in
trouble. This makes a guy either come across
as fake or needy. Either way the woman won’t
be attracted to him. On the other side is the “I just wanna get laid”
guys. They basically see girls as a sex object
rather than, you know, an actual human being.
Most women don’t like the idea of just having
sex then being discarded, so they keep away
from this kind of guy. 4. Your confidence Confidence is essential, but too much of it (ie: arrogance) is a turn-off. Girls want to feel
noticed and appreciated. If you’re too focused
on how great you are to take the time to see
how great she is, she won’t be sticking around too long. Too much confidence will fuck things up for
you in the long run. But if you lack confidence, you won’t get the chance to fuck things up in
the long run. Confidence is the #1 thing all
women look for and if you don’t have it, it’s
hard to get anywhere. 5. Appearance When a guy checks out a girl he’s looking at
her physical beauty. He’s looking for a pretty
face, a hot body… and that’s about it. But when a girl checks a guy out there’s a lot
more going on. Sure she’ll notice his face and
body, but what matters even more than physical features is how he presents himself. Is he well groomed? Does he look like he’s got his shit together? Does he care
about the way he presents himself to the
world? We all make snap judgments about people
based on how they look. I’m not saying it’s right
or wrong, it’s just a fact of life. I do it. You do
it. Pretty girls do it. You can either complain
about it (strengthening reason #1 of” why girls
don’t like me”) or you can get some decent jeans, nice shoes, keep clean, and improve
your odds at attracting women.
