1. Living in the same room (cohabitation) with a man who has not paid your bride-price or wedded you; is this foolishness?
2. Accepting to be a second wife. Are you a living dead, is that your best option?
3. Wearing the engagement ring of a man in the last 2 years who doesn't even know your parents or house. Are you wasting your time & blessing?
4. Using your boyfriend's picture as your profile picture on Facebook. Are you trying to block other serious potential suitors? Have you missed it?
5. Cooking food regularly and washing clothes of your boyfriend as if it’s a secular job. Are you creating a job for yourself?
7. Disobeying your parents for the sake of the boyfriend. Do you think its right?
8. Engaging sexually with this boyfriend simply because he promised to marry you. Is this supposed to be a criterion?
9. Sending your unclad pictures to your boyfriend. Is this shameful?
10. A man that keeps abusing you by raising his hand on you yet you continues prophesying how you cannot do without him. Don’t you need deliverance?
11. He cheats on you vividly and you believe this is part of a relationship. Don’t you think you need hot factory reset slap?
12. Dropping from school to deceive your parents in order to collect money for the same boyfriend that obviously has reckless spending's. Aren't you being childish?
13. Sticking to an abuser while keeping a better man in the friend-zone. Where you cursed?
14. Tattooing your boyfriend's name on your body. Are you human at all?
15. Having unwanted pregnancy and aborting the baby with the hope that your boyfriend still Loves you and will marry you afterwards. Is this part of your doom?
17. Making yourself pregnant to hold him down. Have you so become worthless?
18. Planning and arranging a future with while he obviously gallivants with many others and tells you don’t worry you are still number one. Is this the height of dumbness?
19. Waiting endlessly for an oversea-based fiancé who has already married another woman abroad to get a residence. And the lady continues to tell her suitors boastfully that my guy is based abroad. Isn't this the road to menopause?
20. Do I need to mention the 20th for you to get off irrationality, idiocy, silliness, imprudence, thoughtlessness, stupidity, folly, foolhardiness, recklessness, and even madness?
Number 10 pains me most. LADIES BE ...