A "fool for love" is a phrase used to describe a
seemingly willing party who is ready to go all
the way to please the other party to the very
best of his or her ability.
We all know that love is a figment of
imagination and no matter how you profess love to another person,that same person can
turn around and rub it on your face and this is
why many people are extremely careful in the
way they express their affection towards
whoever they claim to love just to avoid being
called a fool for love. But the bigger problem lies in trying to be too
careful as many people have lost potentially
wonderful affairs just because they preempt
the motive of the other person who might just
be very sincere with them thereby losing that
person to another who is ready to be a fool for that same man or woman regardless of the
expectations. I have come to realize that the best way
you can have peace in any affair is to
risk it all...in other words, become a fool
for that man or woman you truly desire..
If you feel like helping your bae through
school,business or just buying him or her an expensive gift as well as going
an extra mile please go ahead without
second guessing or thinking negatively
that the person could leave you
someday for another. How many of us have felt like getting an
expensive gift for our bae or going the
extra mile but have stopped to think "Is
he/she really worth it?,what if he/she
leaves me eventually?,what if he/she is
cheating on me?" and we just change our mind. If we must have a great affair and a
peaceful one at that,we must learn to
follow our heart and act towards our
bae as if such person will never leave
but at the same time, expect them to
leave even if you give same the whole world. The truth is that you don't go into any
investment with mediocrity and expect a
favourable outcome.
Every love affair is like a profit or loss
business investment with an element of
risk but deserves our "best" input to succeed and whether it works out or not
is a different ball game.
Just follow your heart.
