Women have their own way of thinking and doing things. I
have seen and talked with couple of ladies who feels they can’t
be friends with their fellow ladies. And that is why they are their
own enemies.
Some moments ago, I was discussing with a female friend and
I asked why she doesn’t mingle with her fellow females in her
lodge. She often comes to our male lodge to play with the
guys. “My dear, I don’t want all those their wahala,”she replied.
She most of the females in their lodge are just two faced, back
stabbers and gossipers. And they can’t be trusted.
And mind you, this not the first time such a thing is being said
by a female. Another of my female friend whom I noticed was
closer to the guys than the girls had complained of same thing.
They don’t like themselves, they prefer being close friends with
the guys than the girls. They often have an open eye to their
female colleagues.
Couple of weeks ago, something happened in my compound.
Thief nearly broke into the female section of the building though
it was unsuccessful. The process lasted for like an hour in
which the girls in their rooms were all in their rooms, awake
but can’t even scream. After the incident, the guys interrogated
them why they couldn’t call the other females in other rooms,
they all maintained they don’t have each other’s phone
numbers. That was an insult to them. “It was not surprising,”
many of us guys thought. Because they don’t like themselves.
Common to get their fellow woman number for the lodge,
dem no fit. Women and their problems. A friend said that the
dau God created a woman was the day problem came into the
world.
Why can’t women like themselves. Why can’t they be friends
with one another?
