One of the more ridiculous pieces of
advice I hear spun out to women with
frightening regularity is " Play hard to
get ."
Where does this stuff come from? The
whole playing hard to get thing is archaic, 19th century nonsense.
Most reasonable guys have no interest
or tolerance for the "hard to get" game.
The men love the chase myth has been
propagated for years with very little (if
any) rebuttal. It's just one of those things that has always been openly
declared and just as openly
unchallenged, so the myth has become
accepted fact.
The fact that the woman doesn't need
us makes her a challenge . But what guys don't love, is the chase.
When you think about the concept of
the chase with a healthy dose of logic,
it's crystal clear why that type of
gamesmanship makes little sense.
Why begin something new and potentially great by pretending to be
uninterested initially?
When you pretend to be less interested
than you really are, does this not set the
tone for the rampant 'game-playing'
aspect of dating most of us want eliminated?
Additionally, a guy may decide that he's
wasting his time because he can't figure
out where he stands. So while you and
your girlfriends are busy trying to
"make him work for it" because you don't want to seem too eager or too
interested, he's moved on because he
met someone who was interested and
wasn't afraid to be open about it.
I'm not saying that women should throw
their dignity on the craps table. I'm not saying stuff your underwear into a
guy's shirt pocket with a hotel key
attached to it. No one's advocating that
you get all possessive and Fatal
Attraction-esque; we're just saying to
keep it real. Scraped together : KissChrix
Credit : Yourtango
