This month made it exactly 7 months
I and my ex separated. And ever
since we parted, I've been single.
And, I'm relishing my single status. At
least for now, I'm not being accused
by anyone for not keeping tab, I haven't been subscribing for data for
anyone, I haven't been sending
money from time to time to anyone,
and I'm not duty bound to give
account of my daily activities to
anyone. The aforementioned are what I was doing while I was dating
my ex. So, you can now imagine the
extent of fun I have been having
since this year. April 29th was my birthday, and she
was gracious to call to wish me a
Happy Birthday. I thanked her to have
called to wish me. However, I wasn't
happy that she called because I
never wanted to hear from her anytime soon. My decision is hinged
on the ruthless manner she treated
me while she was leaving me. She
employed the tools of manipulation
and deception in dealing with me. I
saw it that she was leaving, I drew her attention to it, she denied it.
While she busied herself telling her
friends that she had seen someone
better off me, and equally cautioned
them not to tell me about her plans to
leave me. In the midst of this drama, she scuttled every effort made by me
to see her face to face so that we
could talk. When it was dawn on me
that the situation couldn't be
remedied, I took that hard decision to
submit to the reality. Some folks here were very instrumental in my decision
to eventually submit as I brought the
issue here for discussion (I thank U
guys). April was the first time she called
since we broke up, and she didn't call
afterwards. July 20th was her
birthday. Before the day came, I had
took a firm decision against calling or
sending an SMS to wish her. The day came, I didn't reach out to her. In my
mind, I knew she would be expecting
to hear from me. I made sure I
disappointed her. The following day,
she called accusing me to not have
called to wish her a Happy Birthday. That she didn't enjoy her day
because I didn't call. I said I was
immersed in the day's activities that I
didn't remember it was her day. Now, the meat of the matter is, she
said she was sorry for what happened
between us and she took every
responsibility for our separation. She
begged that I forgive her for what she
caused me, and she missed me. Having said all of that, she said we
should always try to keep tabs on
each other intermittently either
through chat or call. Because she
wasn't comfortable with the total
break in communication between us. However, what got me baffled was
the advice she gave me on how I
could make my next relationship
works well. Folks, I don't know what her next
move would be. I have no interest in
having anything to do with her
anymore. Folks, what is her intention?
