As a woman, an independent Nigerian woman,
I know what I want in a man. I saw what I
wanted in my boyfriend before we started
dating. We are not yet engaged but he's the
kind of man I will will say yes to if he asks for
my hand in marriage. There's many reasons why I will say yes to
him and I will give as much reasons I can think
of right now
He is respectful : He respects everyone. A
man who respects everyone surely will
respect he wife or future wife. Respect doesn't mean he calls her Madame or kisses her ass.
What it means is, when he wants to do
something that will hurt her feelings, he will
think twice and back out out of respect for his
woman and her feelings.
He has a heavy wallet: I want a man that oozes of money. He doesn't have to have be a
millionaire but he has to be able to hold any
wahala down, I'm talking about unforseen
circumstances. I can hold it down too
sometimes but I don't want to be the one
holding it down more. I'm a real woman and I want a real man.
He is romantic : Being romantic in the sense
that he remembers the day we met, he opens
the door to the car for me, pus the chair out for
me, remembers my mums birthday. Being
romantic doesn't cost money. Although he has to be rich but he doesn't have to spend the
money. The only reason we girls give men bills
is because they don't ooze of money so we
test them to see their capabilities. When a guy
oozes of money, we don't bill him.
He is not emotional: Emotional men are very loving men that love their women to pieces bit
when they are angry, they are angry to pieces.
A man shouldn't be more emotional than the
woman in a relationship because women are
known to be the most emotional in a '' normal ''
relationship. My bf is emotional but I'm more emotional than him and I like it that way.
He has to know God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit
: I love a man who is not afraid to lead a
prayer. A man who can pray turns me on. A
family that prayers together, stays together.
We don't necessarily have to go to church every Sunday together, some days I go, some
days he goes and some days we go together. I
will not date a Muslim because I'm not Muslim
but I will not expect a Muslim woman to date a
non Muslim man, except on some a few
exceptions. I want a man that will wake me up early in the morning for morning prayer with
the kids
We are on the same level: When you see a girl
wearing Brazilian hair and always has her nails
done, always have it in mind that she's being
the kinda girl her dream man wants. Same goes for men, if you want a girl, be the kind of
man she wants. If you are not presently able to
meet up with the kinda man she wants then
work harder to be that kinda man and try
again. If the girl loves see. Jog everyday for
an hour and go to the gym, be fit and give her what she wants in bed, if she wants to go
clubbing every weekend, work hard and make
money and the her to the best clubs, if she
likes food, take her to the best restaurants in
town. Be the kinda person that you admire
wants. Be yourself : Women are very sensitive. We
can read a man easily and tell what he wants.
You will be surprised that a man can walk up to
a random girl and say I want to sleep with you
and the girl will fall for it. It's not juju, it's just
the guy was real and realness is sexy. Don't best around the bush, say it as it is.
There are more than a hundred categories of
women in Nigeria, I am under one of those
categories and I will probably say there are a
million women that think like me in Nigeria out
of 180 million. What I mentioned are just guidelines and it will
not work on every woman.
