The wedding arrangement is not really bad, as they're only concerned with your (you and your fiancee's) welfare.
But, hey, come to think of it, Would you want a situation whereby you ask your wife to serve you Garri with the remaining portion of meat allocated to you on your wedding day barely a week after the wedding?
Come on, let 'em understand that they won't be the one to feed you after your marriage. At least they should allow one of you (you in particular) to secure a good job before the marriage. You aren't gonna be living their life but yours! Wise up brother, rethink and act, wisely!.