1: All Girls are Materialistic: I don’t think
any normal human being hates money, or
loves to trek under the sun…
The only problem is that some ladies place
allotta emphasis on it, but that doesn’t
change the fact that there are a few good
ones. Please stop generalizing.
2: Maga Syndrome: When a lady ask you
for money/airtime/gift, it doesn’t always
mean she wants to turn you into a maga.
It might be that @ that moment, you ‘the
only one she considers a “help-mate”…lolz
3: S*x on First Date Makes a Girl Cheap:
Some ladies are s*xually adventurous/
active like that, sometimes it happens in
the heat of the moment. That she gave IT
to you on the first date, doesn’t make her
less a woman.
4: Virgins Don’t Exist: We know our society
is now kinda morally bankrupt or we now
have lots of s*xually adventurous youths.
There are still some that are chaste. Till
you confirm she is otherwise…give her the
“benefit of doubt”.
5: Ladies are Marriage Freaks: Trust me, if
our society was one that allowed our
women to live the way their spirit leads,
without putting so much pressure on
them. You would be surprised @ the
number of ladies that are uninterested in
marriage or the ones that wanna get
married @ a later age.
6: A Servile Girlfriend Has Something Up
Her Sleeves : That your girlfriend is so
respectful, loves to wash/cook and clean
doesn’t mean she is trying to beguile you
into marrying her. Just maybe, that’s
exactly how she was brought up.
7: Money For Hand-Back For Ground: You
gave her money, so?
Give because you want to give, not
because it grants you a Visa into her
“factory”. Guys be feeling that because
they gave a young lady money means,
they can play royal rumble with her in bed
anytime/everytime. It shouldn’t be so.
8: Girls That Approach Guys are Desperate:
I guess it’s y’all mindsets that has stymied
the number of ladies that approach men. A
lady that takes the first step is looked
upon suspiciously or even ends up taken
for granted.
Dearest Nigerian guys, help us to love you
better.
