Read
the touching story below: I started
dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already
done with
school managing a little business for
survival
when she got admitted into the
university. My plan was to get married to her if things
went as
planned. A year after she gained
admission, she started
exhibiting some questionable characters
which seemed hard to cope with. She started
acting
like she was too busy for me. She
started
replying cold to my chat. She no longer
cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn’t
surprised because ladies often turn a
new leaf the
moment they get into the University and
start
having various toasters. Though, I could read
these were signs of possible break up
due to
the pressure from various suitors and
perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle
the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk
with her but all my effort seemed to be a
waste.
Her strange attitude, which I could no
longer
cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a
break hoping she would beg me and
make things right. To my greatest
surprise, she said
was cool with it if that was what I
wanted shocked. We went separate ways for
about 7
months after which we reconciled in
April, this
year. After a lengthy discussion blaming
each other for our unseriousness and
childishness, I inquired if she was still
intact the way I left her
and she told me she was. (Though, I
would
have confirmed that during cuddling but she
was on her period that day)
She went home that day and later gave
me a
call back telling me she needed to see
me the next day in order to make a confession. The
moment she said it, I already knew she
had
lost it but I wanted to hear it from her
mouth.
She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she
wasn’t
dating it barely a month after we parted
ways. I was so disappointed and sad
that, how could
someone I dated for one and half year without
touching just throw herself to a man
whom met
just a month after to defile her.
She cried and pleaded for mercy and
since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her
even though I found it hard to get it off
my chest.
Now, I can still see some components
of
infidelity in her despite trying my best not to
reminisce on the past. Though, I still
love her
but not as before and I no longer trust
her like I
used to do Dear social media users, don’t you think it’s too
risky to continue with a relationship
considering
the fact that the TRUST is gone
already?
Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I
should let her go just to save myself
from
worry and nightmare? Please your
advice is highly needed.
