Seven things singles do when tired of
being called "single"
This happens all the time. When a guy or a
girl is tired of staying alone or "testing",
they do most or all of the following
subconsciously;
1. Expectantly call every unknown number
they missed.
Have you been there before? People do it
BUT among those that are termed "Single
& Searching", it's on the high. Her voice
changes He calls back, hoping to hear a
girl's voice. If it's a guy (hardware),
voicemail lo wa!
2. Attend every church meeting
I've met some who weren't serious with
church activities before until they start
getting to 27. Hmm, it's well. The guys,
theirs is 30-33. They join the units with
lots of girls like...
3. Fantasizing or playacting the meeting
of their future spouse
You hear them say, " this is how I'm going
to tell people we met each other"; maybe
in a bus or a keke. Every outing is a call to
fantasize: Is this gonna be the day? Eeyah,
it is on the way.
4. Carrying other women's babies here
and there
Carrying other people's babies become a
hobby especially when those babies are
"sweet", you know what I mean. Not the
"cry-cry" ones o; that's what I mean.
5. Kissing their lil cousins or nephew, in a
kinda way
Especially the emotional ones, they make a
sport out of lip-kissing lil children in a
playful manner. Please, biko, let's not
expose these innocent ones to what we
know nothing about. Cheeks, forehead,
yes! Lips, No! That's a No-Go area. If you
must do that, get yourself a mate.
6. Displaying bbm pins on social media
Well, while this is okay, sometimes, it has
proven abortive as some folks lack the
maturity to handle friendship in such a
way that no one gets hurt. Most times,
greed and lustful desires end up thwarting
what could have been.
7. Frequently attending wedding
ceremonies and all kinds of gatherings
Even burial ceremonies o! Lol! He/she can
just be anywhere.
Being single is not a 'curse'. I believe, it's a
time to really explore one's self and mind
towards the future. Don't rush or hurry
any relationship into marriage.
Do your best part and leave the rest. You
can't force a guy or a girl to love you when
there are over 100 people that wants to
buy your 100 friends suya just to get your
number. Take a chill pill!
The future is bright. Good day!
