THE SUBMISSIVE WOMAN
Most ladies spend so much time and energy preparing
for a wedding ceremony but very unprepared for just
one condition responsible for a formidable union called
SUBMISSION.
The modern day woman has allowed sophistication as a
result of sound education and several other factors to
make her see herself as equal to a man hence finds it
difficult to be extremely submissive and this is one of
the triggering factors for a break up. Being fully
submissive to your man is one of the greatest secret
to longevity of any romantic affair so Lets see what the
Quran and Bible has to say concerning the act of
submission from the woman.
Al-Tirmidhi 3272 - "When Allah's Messenger was asked
which woman was best he replied, 'The one who
pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him
when he gives a command, and does not go against his
wishes regarding her person or property by doing
anything of which he disapproves'."
Ephesians 5:22-24 :Wives, submit to your husbands as
to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as
Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is
the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also
wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
No woman has any business with marriage or any
serious romantic affair with a man until she is ready to
"submit,honor,respect,reverence her husband to the
maximum level just as she will respect the lord.Show
me a submissive woman and I will show you a
peaceful and lasting union.Being submissive does not
mean you should obey your man blindly or go against
the commandments of GOD neither does it make you a
zombie or a mindless person but it means being
meek,humble and serene even when you disagree with
your man as many times as possible.Believe it or not,no
matter how many relationships you get involved in,you
will always have issues if you don't learn how to submit
yourself to your man.
And as the man,for whatever reason you choose to marry
that lady, if you are not ready to love that woman with her
imperfections and without exception with behavior worthy of
respect and esteem, always seeking the best for her with an
attitude of loving-kindness all the days of your life please don't
propose marriage to her.
GOD commands the man to love the wife and the wife
to submit to the husband. Refusal to do this is rebellion
against GOD himself.By loving your wife you are
honoring GOD and not doing your wife a favor and by
submitting to your husband, you are demonstrating an
act of obedience to GOD and not to your husband.
I hope this makes sense.
