In getting a girl’s
number, the most
essential tip I can give
you first is to make
eye contact with her. So you just spot that girl, and you
have your confidence in check,
this is how you should approach
her: Look long and straight
into her eyes. Never look down as it is a sign of
submission, timidity, and
weakness. Maintaining a constant
eye contact when messing with
any girl also says to her that you
are interested in her and that you want to get to know her. This is a
pre-requisite according to women. Never look at a
woman’s breasts
when you’re talking to
her (a common mistake many men make). Women will reject you and
consider you disrespectful if you
do so. Be sure to smile A smile sends a positive and
important message. A smile says,
“I will not reject you. I like you.” A
smile combined with prolonged
eye contact says, “I like you a lot.
I want to know you. Let’s talk.” Women who smile back at you
and maintain eye contact with you
too are those who will be most
receptive to your advances. Note: Raised eyebrows is also a
positive signal which you should
interpret as a come-on. These
next few tips should help you get
that number. Introducing yourself. For example, simply say, “Oh, my
name is (your Name). I’m pleased
to meet you.” Just use your first
name in an informal situation and
both your first and last name in a
more formal setting. Then allow the woman you’re picking up to
offer you her name. Pause for a
moment, if she doesn’t offer it,
ask her what her name is. This is very important, USE HER
NAME in the very next sentence
that comes out of your mouth.
Using her name works like magic
to put her at ease and makes her
more interested in you. A person’s name is the most
important and powerful word you
can ever say. The next thing you
want to say or do is. Compliment her. Call attention to some detail about
her, and flatter her in a totally
positive way. Be sure to say
something specific, that is special
about HER. Be polite and creative
when dishing out compliments. The more poetic and/or dramatic
you can be, the better the results
you’ll get because men lust with
their eyes, BUT women lust with
their ears! A lot of guys ask me what they
should talk about once they get a
woman’s name and after they
have complimented her. What
you need to do is find out what
she wants, what she desires, or what turns her on, her passion or
hobby. Ask her questions about
that and you will have captivated
her completely. Never disagree with
her. Never disagree with a woman
when you first meet her. You
want to create a context of
relatedness, and that’s done by
agreeing with her. Closing You can say something like, “I
have to be going now, but I’d love
to see you again so let me call
you.” Without the all important
phone number, you will never get
anywhere with a woman. Because to score, you will need a
date. To get a date, you will need
the number. Just take a step
forward as if you really intend to
leave and turn back and say
“kindly dial your phone number because I’m going to call you nine
times today”, and smile while
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