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SUNDAY GIST......

By ebube in 21 Feb 2016 | 02:41
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This topic was raised in the church today and I decide to share it...


[b]1. At what aqe is a qirl/lady ripe for marriaqe and quy/man expected to marry??


2. Is it proper/riqht for a man to take care of the lady and her family that he intend to marry(no dowry yet)?[/b]
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21 Feb 2016 | 02:41
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In my own opinion... A lady dat z upto 25 to 30 z gud to get married while guys aged 35 are also gud to go... Since you intend to marry the lady...i dont see any harm spending on her ad her family
21 Feb 2016 | 08:32
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1.)Hmmm i tinkz galz in dier late 20'z or xo bt guyz ermm may 30'z 2.)u cn spend bt dae ar stages
21 Feb 2016 | 17:54
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hmmm am coming
21 Feb 2016 | 18:21
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[color =maroon]I don't feel there is any age set aside for both sex. in my opinion after school, getting a good job, marriage next.[/color]
21 Feb 2016 | 19:04
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I think, I go with @tiffany1. The second part, it depends on the level of income the guy has to contend with.
21 Feb 2016 | 22:29
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I think a girl is ripe for marriage btwn the ages of 26 & above cos at that point she ought to have become matured enough. But I strongly believe in having something doing before venturing into marriage. I don’t buy the idea of house wife. It's not wrong to start spending on your to be spouse or the family. Some occasions calls for it e.g During Mothers Day celebrations, an intending husband ought to get a gift for the would be mother in law same goes to the girl.
22 Feb 2016 | 03:08
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i am coming....
22 Feb 2016 | 03:20
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To me no age limit should be set for both sex so far they possessed all the quality attached to it. And for second part, it depends on financial capability of the guys besides such family should not see the guy as their bread winner.
22 Feb 2016 | 03:46
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age is nt a warrant 4 succeful marriage.so wen eva both sex ar ready 4 married dr should go ahead.
22 Feb 2016 | 06:07
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I support @Tiffany1
22 Feb 2016 | 06:13
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[b]I see people mentioning the financial capabilities of the guy, what about that of the lady in question? This is the 21st century, gone are the days when the lady stays at home and cook only while the guy does the family provision role. Ladies should also work towards financial independence so as to maintain a very healthy self esteem and also keep the family stable financially. In my Opinion, i think a lady in her early twenties fully developed and psychologically mature to take on the gallops of marriage life is ready to marry. For the guys i would go for 25-30's... as long as he is financially independent and comfortable and also possess the will strength and patience it takes to handle a wife and family. Because personally to me, i am getting married in my late 20's... Start a family young, that is the cutest thing. Any financially able person can take care of his Wife's family and his as long as it does not affect the needs of his OWN immediate family (Wife and kids) cus your first priority is to your wife and kids. Your family and that of your wife are secondary priorities .. [/i][/b]
22 Feb 2016 | 06:50
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A woman after 24 is ready enough and a man comfortable enough and can take care of a family financially and responsible enough and at any age is ready to marry and as for takin care of a girl's family is something to be done with wisdom and not taking up the whole responsibility on him
22 Feb 2016 | 08:33
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I think it is good to get married at 25 and above as christian lady since you said the issue was raised in the church but in Islam once you are 18 you are free to enjoy a man as a husband. it is not bad to help your to be wife's family but it should not be taking as a responsibility, because ladies are just gold diggers. her father has his own family to carter for, so do you. it is not a most
22 Feb 2016 | 08:41
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What next after helping the ladies' family and she tell him He is not up to her standard, Should the man in question ask for payback
22 Feb 2016 | 21:16
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Ook ..i support @tiffany1 & @johnysky :)
23 Feb 2016 | 03:19
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@tiffany u are rite
23 Feb 2016 | 06:56
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Na wa o ___ c statement ooo......................................................................... A girl from 22 and above is ripe 4 marriage......... And a guy from 28 up is ripe also
23 Feb 2016 | 09:10
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Mehn at nxt two yrz am getting married... fck age wen my B digitz re intact y won't I marry early
23 Feb 2016 | 18:28
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Ehmmmm wait let me close my Window, I will b bck to drop my opinion.
24 Feb 2016 | 04:56
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