Do you really think that your girl
has never lied to you? You could
be wrong. Even the most sincere
girlfriend hides many of her
feelings and thoughts from her
life partner. There are so many
things that they think and
dream about but never say.
Women have their deepest
secrets that they won’t share
with you –never ever. Their wild
fantasies, hidden fears, past
lovers, unshared longings,
insecurities; these are some of
the forbidden secrets of
females that they won’t tell you.
Even if you men try hard, you
can never dig down what lies in
the deepest corner of her
heart. You can never figure out
what is going on inside her mind.
So, you’re better off not trying.
It’s not that I am accusing
women of betrayal and infidelity.
They can be truly and sincerely
in love with you, but at the same
time, they won’t give you access
to their secret chamber.
Here are six secrets that your
girlfriend won’t let you know
ever.
1. They Like To Be Chased
Yes, it is a fact. Women like to
be chased. They want their ‘man’
to chase her, willing to do
everything to get her. Girls just
love this feeling that they are
that much important for a man.
It’s not that, girls just want to
be chased and not caught, but
they don’t want that feeling to
go away, even after they are
caught by their ‘right man’.
Women want men to woo them.
They don’t want to get trapped
by some insincere person. So,
before quitting this chase game
and before submitting
themselves, they really want to
make sure that the person has
what it takes to be their ‘right
guy’.
2. They Love It When You Are
Jealous
Your girlfriend will never give
you an idea of how much she
loves the look on your face when
you are jealous. They are not
looking for a crazy maniac
jealous man, but someone who is
possessive about them.
If you find your girl flirting
lightly with a dashing guy in a
party or at the bar, she just
wants to hear ‘you are mine’
from you. Yes, these women do
have this twisted idea of winning
their guy by flirting with others.
Once you tell them about your
feeling of jealousy they will
come running to you happy and
satisfied. They have achieved
what they wanted from their
flirting game.
3. They Send Out Mixed
Signals
It is one of the most complexed
traits of women. They are
communicators, but you have to
be very vigilant to read between
the lines when communicating
with your girlfriend.
If they say they are ‘OK’, it is
mostly the other way around.
Women do send out mixed
signals and they want their man
to figure it out on his own. It
can be their psychology,
hormones or nature; but women
are like this.
If you sense a problem, ask her
and if her answer is a brief
sentence like ‘I am fine’, or ‘I’m
just okay’, then gear yourself up
because there is something
wrong, for sure. And the main
issue is she will not let you know
what the actual problem is. She
wants you to figure it out and
then deal with it.
Mostly, women want their
significant other to put in the
effort to get her to talk about
her issues. Dig deep, get
connected with her at a deeper
level, only then you will be really
communicating with her.
Women are made this way and
they can’t help it. So, you need
to work on this to make your
relationship strong and
successful.
4. Her Bestie Knows
Everything
That is another forbidden
secret. Girls share each and
every detail of their relationship
with their best friends. Their
besties know everything,
literally everything.
Many men will get offended with
this idea, but that’s how it is.
Women need to confide into
their besties. It is their nature.
Your girlfriend’s bestie will know
all her secrets, her past
relationships, how she is getting
along with you, means each and
everything. And of course, she is
not going to let you have an idea
what details she has shared with
her bestie. Even if your
girlfriend is about to breakup
with you, her bestie would know
much much before you.
If you are planning to talk to
her bestie about your
girlfriend’s past or about her
relationship with you, hold it
right there. She is your
girlfriend’s bestie, not yours.
5. They Feel Insecure
Insecurity is a built-in feeling
that every girl has. Girls always
feel insecure that their man
might fall for another girl. They
might never let you know how
they feel when you are in close
interaction with other girls, but
they do feel insecure.
And don’t ever try to play the
‘jealous game’ with your
girlfriend. She will be more
insecure in her relationship with
you. Don’t pay more attention to
any other girl/woman than you
do to your girlfriend. Never ever
give too many compliments or
positive remarks about another
girl in front of your girl. She is
definitely not going to like it.
6. They Compare It All With
The Ex
Consciously or unconsciously,
women are always comparing
their present love with their ex.
They take ages to get over their
ex boyfriends. But definitely,
she is not going to let you have
an idea about this, ever.
Women do realise that past
relationships need to be
forgotten in order to move on
with life. They usually forgive
their exes but can’t help
forgetting the details about him
and their relationship with him.
They are constantly comparing
their present relationship and
their life partner with their ex,
and most of the time it is you
who wins, but they can’t just
help comparing the two of you.
Ladies add on if there are more!
