I need your advice on this
matter cos I've been reluctant to do this. I have
a female friend, we dated sometime ago when
we were both in college, though there was no
intimacy involved. She got married about 2
years ago, and we seldom keep in touch just as friends. her husband is aware that we keep
in touch because she told her husband about
me and he's cool with it. But the problem is
anytime she calls me she complains alot about
her hubby being too stingy towards her. She
keeps telling me that her husband doesn't carter for her financially, and that it frustrates
her so much that last month she brought up a
discussion about doing her postgraduate and
her husband turned down the decision, she
said it's really pissing her off because she's
tired of being a house wife and she wants to have something doing since getting a job is
frustrating her. So she begged me to help her
with some money (about 40k) to help process
her transcript and purchase masters form, I
asked about her family members whether the
can help out and she said that no one is willing to give her money, that they keep telling her
she's married and it's her husband's duty and
not theirs. So I am the only friend she can
reach out to, I'm willing to give her the money,
but my fear is her husband, whether he'll be
pleased about it, I don't want to cause any rift between her and her husband, due to the fact
that he's not in support of the masters
program. And I know that my friend she's a bit
stubborn when issues like this come up. So
please guys what's your take on this issue?
Mature advice only!!
