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Should I Expose Him To  His Fiancee?

Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee?

By Blessedgirl in 22 Aug 2015 | 05:15
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Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee?

by eme40rald

Hello Coolvallers,
It is with sadness and hurt that I decided to ask guidance on what action I should take with regards to the event that happened in my life.
I met a guy two years ago and fell in love with him wholeheartedly in fact he is my first love. the relationship was fun and romantic. I lost my innocence to him. Although there were times I had suspicions and I would confront him about it but he always found a way to clear my suspicions. One issue I always felt bad about was that he never took me to his family. As at the beginning of the relationship about a month into it his sister got married and I was not invited I felt maybe it was too early and shrugged it off. he never used my pictures as dp claiming he doesn't feel its proper until we are married.

apart from all these he was a sweet and loving man. we were like best friends.
Fast forward to two years later I did something I had never done before.

I searched his phone while he was asleep and what I discovered was a blow for me. He was in another relationship!!! I stole the girl's contact and disguised as his colleague just to get information from her with time she was free with me.

I discovered they had been dating for seven years and she lived in another state.

just last week he said he was travelling for a business event only for me to find out he went for his introduction to her family.
confronted him and he has been begging me to forgive him.
Kind hearted Coolvallers please what do I do?

should I expose him to the girl or not.
22 Aug 2015 | 05:15
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Dis mata is as simple as eating fresh fried fish 4rm france, jux take a walk since u already knw ur now a loser in his life, xposing him 2 d gal he's already done intro wud do u no guy, it will rada bring envy n hate 4rm d oda gal who myt simply tink ur jux out der 2 kill her joy, rem u told her ur a colleague n nw u wana go tell her smtin diff, so hw do u tink dat will mk of u uh? so my dear, xposing him aint no solution to ur predicament, d oda gal hold all d aces n u'd be actin a fool's game by tryn 2 xpose hm.. so bottom line here i'd say u jux TAKE A WALK, ur destiny is in ur hands gal..
22 Aug 2015 | 05:29
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My dear no need cos u will later b d game girl
22 Aug 2015 | 06:13
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Leave him and find a Good one
22 Aug 2015 | 11:44
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I agree wit mike leave it nd take heart simple dan to embarass ur self tinkin u are smart
22 Aug 2015 | 12:07
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U need not that deae. Just move on with ur life
22 Aug 2015 | 12:13
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Simply walk away.
22 Aug 2015 | 12:20
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Move on with ur life jare,what will ur exposing him got u ? more problem I guess so just 4get abt him dats not d end of life
22 Aug 2015 | 12:27
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just move one with ur life since u found out for tym already d lord will be ur strenght
22 Aug 2015 | 13:10
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Hmmmm. Some men sha. Pls just move on, d evil dat men do remains with dem even after their existence. His heartless way of treating u will or must surely pay him back one day with its own coin
22 Aug 2015 | 14:35
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@Donmikie ur head dey dia jae... U spoke my mind.... Even d guy will deny it..nd all blames will be on u.... Dating a guy 4 2 years! Without knwn any1 4rm his side? Gosh! I dnt waste my tym on guyz dat cnt boast of me in public..even within a month... I will simply walk out of dat relationship... When dat guy starts suffering 4 d pains he caused u nw... Ppl will start asking dat who did he offend...nd dey will be pitying him... Some guyz re jez so wicked!
22 Aug 2015 | 15:59
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pls move on with ur life, now ur eyes will be clear be careful , a much loving & caring 1 is out dia waiting 4 u. tk hrt
22 Aug 2015 | 18:52
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Thr is only one thing dat we fight for each time a New day begins is to be #‎succesful‬ ...but I will advice"is better for u to become #‎rightous‬ than to become #success cus wen u become #rightous u become #success as well.. #success consist of worldly riches,while #‎rightousness‬ consist of worldly riches nd also erntanal life after our departure from ths earth.... *******The bible***said "he who seeks first the kingdom of God every other thing shall be added up to him" So friends try nd be at the right part of life....it shall be well with us... #‎Amen‬! ######### COMPOSED & WRiTTEN by me( #‎FabulousDE‬-fabulist) #######still upcomin....thankz @CoOL-VAL...for the INspirition.
23 Aug 2015 | 04:28
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See 4get him and move on with ur life
23 Aug 2015 | 04:56
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Move on with ur life
23 Aug 2015 | 07:57
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I wuld suggest u leave him for the girl
23 Aug 2015 | 12:59
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And if u truly love him den pls dn't expose him to the girl cus it won't gain u anytin
23 Aug 2015 | 13:01
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just move on!
23 Aug 2015 | 13:19
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just forgive him n live ur live. More beautiful days ahead, u are gonna get some1 who will love n care for u
23 Aug 2015 | 14:23
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