A relationship is all about making each other happy, creating happy moments and fond memories, loving and caring about each other. If it seems like crying, screaming, abusing, insulting, and fighting one another all that time, then that’s not a healthy relationship. It's something else. You need to be very observant, analytical, know what you want and ready to make moves anytime when you aren't getting what you deserve. Life is too short to pretend that you are happy and contented with someone in a relationship yet you are hurting inside every day.