Are you wondering why you can’t find love? Or are you
looking for love with no luck?
Do you want to find love? Of course, you do. All of us do.
But just because you can’t find love around you doesn’t
mean you’ll never find love.
You can look into the mirror every day and ask yourself the
same question, “will I find love?” hoping the answer will be
an affirmative one day. But staring into a mirror won’t really
change your life. If you really want to find
love and lead a happy and romantic life, you need to
give these pointers a thought.
#1-WHY CAN'T YOU FIND LOVE?
There are a lot of couples in the world, and an equally high
number of single men and women. So why is it that you can’t
find love when everyone else seems to be jumping between
partners all the time?
You may feel like the world is conspiring against you and
pushing every eligible partner away from you.
Or it may be because of your hectic work hours or your lack
of drop dead gorgeous looks or missing funny bone. You can
have a lot of reasons. But the real truth is far more simpler
and truthful.
You can’t find love because you’re not giving yourself the
opportunity to find love.
It’s really that simple. The only person stopping yourself
from finding love is yourself.
#2-LOOK IN THE MIRROR
Why do you think you can’t find love? Look into that mirror
and list out the reasons.
You’re short? Ugly? Boring? Not
earning enough money? Not a great communicator? Or all of
the above?
But then again, haven’t people with all the shortcomings I’ve
mentioned above getting loving partners and leading happy
lives? So why is it not working for you?
The truth is You can’t find love because you’re letting those
shortcomings get in the way. It’s weighing your confidence
down like a big bag of bricks on your back.
It’s easy to lose motivation and confidence, and finally give
up. But giving up really has never helped anyone.
On the other hand, we have people who are extremely
confident about their appearances and everything else, but
they’re still single and looking for someone. Why are they
single?
#3-LOOKING FOR LOVE
If you really want to find love, you need to be looking for
love. Many people say that it’s better not to go looking for
love. They say love will come to you when the time is right.
But that’s not true.
Why is looking for love any different from looking for a job?
You can’t sit back and wait for the perfect job to land on
your lap. You have to look for it. Sometimes, people get
lucky, of course. But it’s not always the case.
Never stop looking for love. But then again, don’t run
around frantically waving your hands and yelling “I want to
find love!”
Love, just like everything else has to be sought
out.
#4-FINDiNG LOVE
Finding love isn’t as *easy* as finding a great job though.
Finding love is complicated and tricky, and you’re never
going to know where to find it. But if you’re single and can’t
find love, you need to do something about it. One of the
best things to do is go out and meet people.
If you’re looking for love, you need to have an active social
life. But then again, it doesn’t mean you should go out with
the same bunch of friends to the same old clubs. Do
something different. Remember, finding love is like meeting
with an accident. It happens when you least expect it. If you
really want to experience true love, you have to stop being
cautious and holding back. You need to meet new people,
make friends, and hang out with new friends every week or
so.
The more people you meet, the higher the odds of you
finding true love. And believe me, true love is looking for
you too. So the more initiative you take, the faster you’ll find
love.
#5-CREATING OPPORTUNITY WHILE LOOKING FOR LOVE
So you don’t have too many friends who have other friends?
It doesn’t matter! Join a yoga class, or a dance class, or
participate in some community event. The world is full of
opportunities to meet your lover. And it’s only you that’s
holding yourself back.
If you really put in even a bit of effort, you’ll be able to see
how easy it is to meet new friends and interact with
potential love interests. And every time you meet a few
more people. The odds of finding someone who will fall in
love with you will only increase as you meet more people.
#6-DEALING WITH REJECTION
Now this one is obvious. When you’re looking for love, you
are going to have to deal with rejections. You can’t expect
everyone you fall in love with to fall right back into love with
you. So learn to deal with rejections gracefully. It’s just like a
job application. You can’t really get any job you want, every
time you send in an application, right?
If someone’s not
interested in going out with you, move on and try to find
someone who likes you back too.
#7-STAY POSITIVE
No matter what happens in your pursuit of love, stay
positive. You never know who’s looking at you from far
away, slowly falling in love with you every day. As long as
you make new friends, meet new people and stay positive,
love will come knocking on your door sooner than you think.
If you’re looking for love and want to find love, but can’t
find love, you only have yourself to blame. It’s easy to
blame circumstances, but it takes a brave person to
accept that it’s their own fault. And it’s the brave person
who takes chances and will eventually find love and
lead a happy life.
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Thank you for reading,
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Love you all.
