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One of the greatest headaches of many
young
ladies in relationship is the issue of sex.
While they find themselves entangled in love,
they also
would not want to offend God by
fornicating.
Meanwhile, most young men of today are
always demanding sex before marriage as a
proof of
love. If a lady denies her boyfriend
(fiance) sex,
he tends to think she either does not love
him or she is seeing another guy. And this
throws the
lady into so much confusion. She
genuinely loves
the guy but wouldn't want to give in to
sex. If she denies him, she may lose him and if
she gives
in too she disobeys God. Sorry to our
ladies.
Gentleman, please know that it is
absolutely a lie from the pit of hell that if your fiancee
does not
give you sex it shows she doesn't love
you. How
can you use sex as a LOVEOMETRE?
Have you never slept with ladies you didn't truly
love? If
you haven't then let me tell you that
many people
are having sex with people they never
love. And the men are themselves the worst
culprits.
If sex is a proof of love then we have to
conclude
that prostitutes love all the men they
sleep with. If sex is a proof of love then we have to
go about
sleeping with our best friends and even
family
members to show how deeply we love
them. Even married couples, do not have sex to
prove
their love. They rather have sex because
sex is
part of marriage and it is meant for both
procreation and recreation - child birth and
enjoyment. Don't you know that there are
married
couples who are not genuinely in love but
they
still have sex as a matter of duty or just for
cover-ups?
Surely, sex plays a major role in love
affairs. But
Eccl 3:1 says, "For everything there is a
season..." It is never the right season to have sex
in a relationship. This is because sex is a
blood
covenant between husband and wife not
boyfriend
and girlfriend. Gen. 4:1 says, "Adam knew his
wife". It does not say "Adam knew his
girlfriend".
Stop going that far with the lady. If you
want to
know about a woman's love for you sex is never
the answer. Leave her alone to serve God
right for
your own sake if you truly want to marry
her.
Song of Songs 2:7 says, "I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, by the
gazelle...that you
AWAKEN NOT LOVE UNTIL IT IS TIME".
The gazelle is a very swift animal. It runs
at least
96 km per hour. Bible compares romance to the
gazelle. If you start romance at the wrong
time
you may crush because you will not be
able to
stop it from running your life at top speed. So
until you are married, don't AWAKEN
LOVE. Sex
has been the main reason for most
broken hearts
and disappointments. Sex is called love-making because it
involves the
body, soul and spirit. Do you want your
soul and
spirit to be tied to somebody who is not
married to you? Can you stand the
consequences, Mr.
Young Man? Hear the Bible:
"O my son, O son of my womb, O son of
my vows,
DO NOT SPEND YOUR STRENGTH ON WOMEN,
YOUR VIGOUR ON THOSE WHO
DESTROY
KINGS." (Prov. 31:2)
Sex before marriage can destroy you,
even your Christian life. The funny thing is some
Brothers in Christ even worry the
Sisters in Christ for sex. So God says, "My
son...son of my vow". You are a son of
God so
don't waste your energy on women. You should
rather be teaching her chastity and help
her serve
God well.
Seeking love from sex is like looking for
Jesus in an empty tomb.(Word) Take it easy.
When you marry
you will be fed up with sex. Your wife will
be
chasing you with it and you will be
running away, saying, "Oh I'm tired, why?". Take time
okay, Wait patiently. It will soon be laid at
your doorstep and you will notice how
stupid it is
to chase sex when you are not married.
If you want a woman to prove her love to you,
allow her some space to be herself. Do
not force
your will on her or control her. Her love,
by
nature, will push her to do things that will signal
to you that you are her top priority. She
will be
ready to marry you, than just have fun
with you.
She will not be interested in you showering things
on her but rather, she would want both of
you to
set your life and future right. She will
support
your dreams and visions and help you build up
your Christian life. In fact, she will exhibit
the
spirit of humility and you will also
discover she is
a precious jewel in a glass jar, reserved for you
alone.
So from today, even if she herself brings
sex, tell
her..."Do not awaken love until it is time."
And if you guys love each other, plan about
marrying
and submit your plans to God. He will
bless it and
put you two together as one.. Ladies...you
should also read before sending to him
I wish u read all to the last.....our ladies
are dying in the hands of some
unmerciful men.
Sex has turned many ladies into a
mystery of thinking what they feel for a particular
guy is true love.
You meet a guy, he takes you out; He
had a
great sex with you, it was like heaven to
you. He makes you feel happy because you enjoyed him so much
you start assuming both of you are meant
to
be together as husband & wife.
You start dreaming of your future with
him while he's just having fun. Your feelings
for him has blindfolded you from seeing
things from the reality point
of view. You find yourself infatuated with
him just because you don't want to feel
used & dumped. Sometimes you need to sit down & ask
yourself; what do i really love about this
guy?
Do I see Christ in him? Is he a guy I can
boldly take to my pastor? Can I introduce
him as my husband to people who are responsible? You know the guy is not
capable of being a good husband &
father; yet you want to kill yourself
because of him. But sometimes you need
to differentiate between what you just
feel and what you really deserve. (Deep) Don't start dreaming of your future with a
guy who is just catching his fun. Don't
attach a permanent feeling to a temporal
person. Don't open up your heart to
a guy who doesn't open his bible. Stop
chasing after a guy who doesn't chase after God.
(Word
