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My Husband and I Abstained from S*x Till Marriage but This 'Sad Thing' is Happening Now - Wife Opens Up

My Husband and I Abstained from S*x Till Marriage but This 'Sad Thing' is Happening Now - Wife Opens Up

By Samnolimit in 14 Sep 2016 | 13:50
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.. A lady whose husband is currently starving her s*xually has cried out on social media with pieces of advice flowing in from friends.
The young housewife is currently having troubles in her marriage as her husband has failed to live up to his s*xual responsibilities.
Read her message below as published on a popular relationship platform:
I am 24 and self employed. He is 30...I'm tired of my husband. We recently got married, 2months ago to be precised. We dated 7yrs..yes I was 17 (ss3) when we met, said he fell in love with my innocence and our love has grown over the years.
All the while before we got married we had fantasized on how we would enjoy s*x. (We only had intense make out, said he was willing to wait, very difficult but he did). In fact there were times where I just wanted him to do it but he will calm me down and say we should wait.
We had talked about so many s*xual things that I was so looking forward it all. The reverse is the case right now. My husband hardly touches me now, sometimes I will have to be the one to initiate the s*x (oh he is great in bed by the way, the few times we have had it).
When he comes back from work,he is tired, every time tired. I would take my bath wear something nice, make sure I smell nice, at the end Zero, he would just sleep. I really want to get pregnant but I don't see that happening with this his I am tired way of life. He keeps saying "he is not rushing, we have our whole lives and we are not competing with anyone" .
That anytime pregnancy comes fine.we have not had s*x for 10 days now, kissed me maybe just twice (let me just say no romantic anything). He is a good man, hardworking and religious, he loves me so much and would do anything for me.
He just keeps saying we have our whole lives to have s*x, no need to rush. I have watched porn now like 7 times this week, I am not the cheating type. I have never cheated and I would never by Gods grace but my s*x life is no as I anticipated.
In fact it is zero.what do I do? I have spoken to him, how else do I speak to him again. He says the same thing over and over, he is not rushing. I'm tired I swear, you people should come and tell me what to do Mbok before my head explodes.
I just want him to be romantic, kiss me 1 million times a day and s*x too.
14 Sep 2016 | 13:50
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Hmmmm Speechless
14 Sep 2016 | 13:56
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Nawa o..u ave to report him to ur pastor or Rev fr...7years without sex..hmmmm..and he z great on bed..what z the problem with him then? Maybe need prayers
14 Sep 2016 | 14:06
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Try 2 seduce him mayb whenever only both of u ar arround u should only put on a pant i tink dat will arouse him
14 Sep 2016 | 14:12
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Do some crazy seduction in front of him u will thank me later
14 Sep 2016 | 15:46
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@emileagosu u mean she should seduce him almost everyday, after falling for seduction,d point is he will still go back to his old ways left to me: I think that man might be having an affair with another woman,thereby killing his passion for his own wife,all she needs is patience #signsout
14 Sep 2016 | 16:03
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Can someone get me husband number, he needs to be lashed out
14 Sep 2016 | 16:18
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Madam s*x na food ....besides he's caring hardworking....no one dey chase u
14 Sep 2016 | 16:37
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Put Man Power In His Drink
14 Sep 2016 | 16:47
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mbok? E b like say you b calabar woman chaii eyah just endure ooo but the man no deh try at all
14 Sep 2016 | 16:56
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Start usinq seks toys in his presence, I'm sure he's 'qon qet jealous. :b
14 Sep 2016 | 17:32
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aaHh this one hArd ooooh
14 Sep 2016 | 18:06
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As Bob says [b]we ain't gotta rush just take it slow.[/b] ♥♥
14 Sep 2016 | 18:27
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@olamilekan its so so unfortunate that u understand less abt marriage and sex.they are married not dating,so what's the essence of. Marriage without sex and procreation.
14 Sep 2016 | 18:41
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i think he has turn GAY
14 Sep 2016 | 18:45
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speechless
14 Sep 2016 | 19:29
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"mbok" alright she is a calabar woman..... take heart!! u married a hardworking man
15 Sep 2016 | 03:49
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I think @teesolid gave the best advice.... or better still DRUG HIM #shikina
15 Sep 2016 | 03:52
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Speechless..
15 Sep 2016 | 04:03
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I no gt mouth for dx matter
15 Sep 2016 | 04:37
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typeless
15 Sep 2016 | 05:01
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try his is complicated
15 Sep 2016 | 06:00
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speechless
15 Sep 2016 | 08:19
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Mtchwww All These People Sef How Will Their Pastor Solve Their S-e-x Issue? I Believe Their Are Professional Who Deal In Stuff Like This
15 Sep 2016 | 12:16
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hmmm sorry ooo
15 Sep 2016 | 12:46
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I wish to get a man like that
15 Sep 2016 | 15:16
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@marangel are you sure?
15 Sep 2016 | 17:35
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he have goten use to staying with her without sex, so she no longer attract him sexually, Prayers is Needed
16 Sep 2016 | 08:58
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@leksmart01 what are u saying? Sex na food? I hope u can read dat they are married? And she has d ryt 2 request 4 it... And u think marriage without intimate contact won't have problem? Smh
16 Sep 2016 | 20:26
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Abeg help me tell him jae.. Even pastors have sex with their wives.. @petermikel
16 Sep 2016 | 20:29
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Speechless
17 Sep 2016 | 20:57
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@Tenniebenson (Area Mama).....don't u knw atimes s*x are distracting,d husband want to achieve something b4 facing d s*xual aspect....besides dey are life partner dey av days ahead of dem....S*X na d least thing....
23 Mar 2017 | 17:16
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