I know this forum has been providing
vital solutions to problems from time
immemorial hence the need to pour-
out my worries on this forum to get
solutions become inevitable. I was preparing for the final between
Portugal and France yesterday when
my girlfriend called me she will be
coming, that I should be at home by
5pm. I was like why today of all day
now! I told her I won't be around that I will be going to my parents place that
evening. She began to act cold via
the phone and later told me she will
come let's go together. I haven't even
seen your parents one on one she
said... I was like which kind stubborn babe is this... I replied let's see about
it but it will be better we make it
another day. Don't worry today is the
perfect day she said and cut the calls. I tried calling no answer. This babe
has come again because she don't
like hearing football. We have had
issues on this football matter
severally but I told her she can't
dictate what I will do or not, that I started watching football before I
meet her. She first stop me from
playing my soccer game when she is
around. my friend have to call me
when coming during the weekend to
play games if she is around or not. I had to stop doing it when she is
around to avoid problems. Fast-forward... She came few minutes
to 5pm. She was looking superb,
probably to impress my parents. The
desire for romance and sex came but
I have to rebuked it because if it start,
then my match is cancelled. How do I tell her I ve changed my mind from
seeing my parents to watching
football she never like or want to hear
when she is around. We talk and talk
till about few minutes to 8. She
observed I wasn't coming closer to her as usual. She was like, a you
expecting another woman. I smiled... Then I busted it. Baby lets go and
watch match. This one is very
interesting. It's a final match. Ohhh
match again. Aren't you going to your
parents place again? I said my mum
called to tell me she won't be around. She became relaxed. Please cancel
the match... I want to cook something,
you need to assist me. I was like baby
am not hungry. I ve eaten. I am
watching my food intake this period.
She said that's my own, she wants to cook and I should be with her. The
hatred against her started again. I
said if you don't want to follow me to
watch the match, eat your food alone.
You can't stop me this time. Even my
mother can't stop me from watching this final. I left the kitchen. I called a friend to
reserve a seat for me. She was
frowning bitterly . I have made up my
mind already. Few minutes after
Ronaldo was brough -down, I
received a text from her. " Dear so your match is more important than
me" you can forgo me just because of
match you can still watch later...it's a
pity you don't love me. All I was
thinking is how Ronaldo will come
back again. I didn't give the message a second thought. After the match. I was so happy
Portugal won after the heat from
France. That is when I read her
message again. I quickly ran home. It
was almost 11:30pm. She has slept. I
send her a romantic message and told her am sorry about it but she
should try to let me enjoy my football. She woke up this morning. She was
still frowning that I abandoned her for
common football. I try to make her
understand how important and
interesting the match is to me. She
left in anger and said I should either choose my football or her. That when
I have made up my mind, I should let
her know. Though decision for me to make. I am
not scared of loosing her anyway but
I don't want us to break-up just like
that... I'm not ready to drop sports
again because of her. I told myself
the sacrifices is too much, maybe I have to let her go... I have made up
my mind not to call her.
