At some point or the other in your life, it
is very much certain that you will look
back and wish you never said or did
somethings. I could have titled this article ” Top
Effective Ways To Live 100% Of Your
Life
Without Regrets.” but to be frank with
you,I will only be hyping you because
regrets are in evictable in life, the gravity might just be different.
You as a person reading this article might
have done somethings or made some
mistakes that has affected you or is
affecting you presently, negatively. There
might be a way to getting out of it but this article will help you not to fall into
another.
Regrets is one bad factor in life that
weakens you, sometimes it defines your
end. May I quickly put it to you that there
are two major types of lessons you learn in life and they are,
1. Learning To Correct and
2. Learning In Regrets.
I will want you to get this today that there
are some mistakes you make, actions you
take, words you say that immediately you create them wrongly, corrections can
never be made.
When you were much more younger, you
might have accidentally deeped your
hand
into a burning candle light and got hurt but in that process you were able to learn
never to try it again because you hand
were still intact. That was a lesson you
learnt and could still amend but
assuming
the hand got burnt, then that is the perfect definition of learning in regrets
because no amendment can be made
again.
The most rampant word people use to
show their state of regret is “had I know”,
some might be correct saying this, they might have fallen into the mistake as a
result of poor orientation or awareness
but the reverse is the case in the life of
most of us. Most of the terrible mistakes
most of us make that leads to regrets are
been triggered by some of the following factors below;
» Carelessness
» Over Confidence
» Lack Of Self-control
» Poor Decision Making
» Wrong Consultation » Dwelling More On Assumption
» Negligence
» Waving Of Corrections etc.
So many people after making a terrible
mistake starts crying and depressed not
because they where not advised before their actions but because they just want
to please their self. Living a life free from
regrets can best be attained by being
concious of most of the actions you take.
May I briefly deviate a little, I will like to
quickly disclose to you Three Major Angles From Which Regrets Comes In
Most Cases.
1. Decision Making,
2. Actions,
3. Speech.
1. Decision Maiking :- Sometimes after some years when tend
to
recall some decisions we made and kind
of wish we did not.
Decisions should not be credited at the
instance of its making untill the result is seen and certainly good. Most people
has
rendered their relationship life useless
today because of the decision they made
years ago.
So many people has become psychologically affected and emotionally
robbed due to the situation they made
and latter start regretting it.
Some has ended up nailing theirself
unknowingly through the rash decision
they made and when outcome begin to manifest, they begin to exclaim “had I
know”
Most student get affected by this in
admission decision making, when they
are
suppose to come down and pick the right choice, they go astray because of the
points highlighted above and at the end
of
all when not admitted, they now begin to
wish they had gone another way.
2. Action :- Most of us are guilty in this aspect. Lots
of people has been completely nailed by
their actions. At the instance of taking
actions, we do it without having the result
in view. If we seriously check into what
our actions might result in to, we won’t do most things we do.
Most people would have finished fighting
their helper before regretting their
actions.
Most people would have finished
concluding on a situation before they know they have implicated theirself.
Most people would have finished
bursting
things before they realise they have kept
their on life on the line in the process.
3. Speech :- The words you say are as vital as a life.
So
many people utter words without thinking
and sets their future on fire through it. I
read an article on nairaland earlier today
on a guy who had earlier insulted a man on an online forum. He happened to be
dating the mans daughter and on his first
visit to the ladies house, he met the man
and they related well not knowing they
where at logger head online.
The guy happened to leave his laptop at the girls house and went out but on
getting back, the man had already gone
through the system and discovered the
guy. On the guys arrival, the man stated
the issue and sent the guy away totally.
You must be ever concious of what you say because they mostly leave the
present
and go to hide in the future waiting for
you.
Practical Guides On How To Avoid Living
A Life Of Regrets :- • Be Ever Concious Of What You Say and
Do,
• Be Ever Concious On The Conclusions
You Make,
• Never Act Base On Asumption,
• Always Analyse The Outcome Of Every Decision Before Taking It,
• Shun Over confidence,
• Always Be Yourself In Every
Circumstance.
• Never Underrate People No Matter The
Age, • Always Work and Walk With The Future
In Mind.
