Here are some things I absolutely
think women should stop doing to
each other:
1. Stop Taking Each Other Down If anyone should be there for a
woman, it is another woman. As
women, we need to stop taking each
other down with our words and
actions and rather focus on lifting each
other up. The world would be a much better place if we all did that.
2. Stop Comparing As women, we find it so easy to look
at ourselves and compare varying
qualities that other women possess.
Each of us is created in our own
unique and special way. Let us try
taking the time to realize the unique qualities that each of us has rather
than comparing.
3. Fighting Over Guys Obviously, if your best girlfriend has
an affair with your guy, you have
every right to scream and yell. That
kind of betrayal warrants anger, for
sure. But most times, we should take
our anger out on our partners rather than the other girl. Also, if your
girlfriend is in a relationship and you
are not, don’t allow your jealousy and
frustration to get in the way of your
friendship.
4. Criticizing Other People’s Weight There are very polite ways to make a
complement on another woman’s
weight. But saying “oh my gosh
you’re so skinny” or “wow, you’ve
added so much weight!” might be
more hurtful than we think it is.
5. Withholding Compliments Not only is it bad to compliment
someone negatively, it is also wrong
to withhold good compliments. If your
girlfriend has a really nice hairstyle on,
or has lost some weight and is looking
great, go ahead and say it to her.
6. Telling Each Other’s Secrets It’s really sad to confide in someone
and find out that the person has let
out your secret to the wrong person.
Ladies, let’s not do this to ourselves.
7. Not Being Supportive Many times as women, we desert our
friends when they need us the most.
Its our friend’s wedding, birthday,
graduation, store opening…. and
because we feel a certain way about
that achievement or milestone, we don’t give our support. So wrong.
8. Stop Competing! I wish I could scream this. Not
everything in life is a competition. No
one has to really ‘win’ that best
dressed award or most expensive bag
title. Focus on your own qualities that
are unique and special to you.
9. Comparing Our Bodies Hey ladies, we really need to stop this.
Many of us have done harmful things
to our bodies in a bid to look like the
next person. Love who you are and
don’t think you need to look like
anyone else.
10. Stop Hating I really didn’t know what to title this
last point. It might not be the
appropriate word to use, but have you
noticed that some women just don’t
like other women for absolutely NO
REASON? I’ve heard this a lot of times “I don’t like that lady” and when you
ask why, the response is “I don’t
know, I just don’t like her“. Maybe she
walks or talks in a certain way that
you don’t feel comfortable with and
because of that, you conclude that you don’t like her even though you hardly
know her!
This gets me confused. Let’s continue
this discussion in the comment section.
Ladies, why do you think we do this to
each other? How can we stop such habits?
What other things do they need to stop
doing to each other?
