Naturally, men are supposed to make the first move on the lady they admire or crush on, but times have changed and women seem to be the ones on the lead of the game right now.
Well, it’s nothing to be shy about, the crux of the matter is to know exactly the right steps to take when making the move on the guy you admire so much.
If you fall under the category of those women who really wanna make the bold step, here are about 6 tips that could help.
IS HE SINGLE OR TAKEN?
This should be the first thing you should check about a guy you want to make the first move on. It could be a rough play to do it to a guy who is married or taken. Although we understand that it is not easy to run this check especially in a society where men hardly wear their wedding bands to mark them ‘taken’, but it is very necessary.
BOLDNESS DOES IT
If there is one trait men admire about the ladies, it is boldness. Most women often shy away from making the first move because they lack this trait. It is expected that most men would feel desperation drove into making the first move. But hey darling! It’s nothing about desperation provided you mind is so clear about what exactly you want. Who knows, Mr Right could be one ‘Hi’ away. So if you really wanna make the rare move, ensure your boldness and courage are top notch. You could end the conversation by inviting him over for some beer
PRETEND TO BE STRANDED
Yes PRETEND! In as much as we are not encouraging deception, you could have a fertile ground to make the move while pretending to be stranded somewhere and need desperate help. Take us for our words, most guys would definitely fall for this trap especially when the lady involved is such pretty damsel.
But wait up! don’t include washing some clothes or cooking a meal among the help you need cos this could be a turn off.
FLIRT WITH HIM
Flirt it up girl! Except you live under the rocks, you should have probably heard that flirting works wonders.
Perhaps you should try it if you wanna make the bold step, who knows! it could work for you cos doubtlessly, men love to flirt.
Send him flirty messages all you can and get him smile sheepishly, but the game is, KEEP A DISTANCE!
HOW ABOUT A LOOK IN HIS EYES?
Oh well, this doesn’t mean you should stare like you’re some moron. Be soft enough while looking him in the eyes and saying some words. That exudes confidence and at the same time, passing the message that that you’re totally spellbound by him. Thank us later.
WATCH A ‘SCARY’ MOVIE TOGETHER
Seeing a scary movie together could give you a great chance to make the move. You understand the shrilling sound you make when you see something really scary. Just expect him to draw you closer and possibly cuddle you up in his bid to assure you that all is well.
When he does this, ensure you reciprocate the gesture and then the magic moment could happen.
