Getting a real man that will make you happy for the rest of your life has been the goal of every woman. There are still good men out there, these qualities will help you find the right one.
Looking for the right man to sweep you off your feet? Then, these five qualities will lead you to the right path.
1. HE LEARNS FROM HIS MISTAKES
By nature, we humans are imperfect and we tend to make more mistakes than we will ever admit, that said, the best quality a can posses is the ability to admit he was wrong whenever he makes a mistake and work towards fixing it.
Even the most successful people today have experienced failure and defeat, but instead of dodging from it, they openly embrace it. A good man will admit he is wrong, a great man will admit he is wrong and will become a better person because of it.
2. HE IS GENEROUS WITH HIS TIME
Truthfully, we woman love to be showered with gifts and money, when it’s time for valentine or any special occasion, we expect our man to give us things like flowers, shoes, bags and the rest and if he doesn’t deliver any of those, we assume he doesn’t care about the relationship.
The rare truth is, a man who gives his time rather than money is the real deal. A man who will give you his attention is more precious than that very one that showers you gifts, yet he’s never around. A man who values time and memories over material things is Priceless.
3. HE IS STRAIGHTFORWARD
To start with, some of us don’t even like it when we are told the reality, we are used to living in a world where things are shrug off and prefer to say “it’s okay” even when it’s not. A man who’s not afraid to tell you ” how it is” is hard to come by, a straight forward and honest man would want to know what the matter is, simply because he would love to help, this sometimes comes with “tough love”, because you will hear things you really don’t want to, but in the long run, it’s best to hear it and have it dealt with.
4. HE IS COMPASSIONATE
The ability to embrace someone else’s trials or jubilation is one of the most powerful emotions. It’s great to have a man who can understand your pains and also take part in your joy, he’s not afraid to put himself in your shoes so he can see things as you see them and do his best to move forth in a positive manner.
5. HE CAN LAUGH AT HIMSELF
It is very important to have a partner who can laugh at himself when the going gets tough, as it is, life is tough, and it will be tougher when taken too seriously, have a partner who wouldn’t take out any form of frustration on you, but would rather take a break, laugh it off and get back to set it right.
- culled from Monanne
