He generally doesn’t want to be caught Look, if you have to chase down a man, it usually means that he’s got
commitment issues and doesn’t actually want to be caught. Sure, he
might be absolutely gorgeous, and he might even have a wining
personality, but you’re chasing him for a reason. Any man who actually wants to be with you won’t need to be hunted
down. Instead, they’ll come running towards you with open arms! And if
you think you can change a committment-phobe into a man who is
ready to settle down, you really should think again. You become fixated Chasing a man is not good for your mental health. It can make you feel
anxious, and you start to feel paranoid that every little thing he says on
social media is aimed at you. You even start analysing all his texts, and you play the “He Loves, He
Loves Me Not” game. It can be humiliating Maybe there is one guy you’ve been chasing for a few months now.
You’ve made it obvious everywhere you go that you want him. You’ve
constantly posted links to his Facebook wall, retweeted all his lame
tweets, messaged him, texted him, called him up, “accidentally”
bumped into him and so on. Everyone knows you’re chasing this guy, from your mom and closest
friends to his Facebook friend’s who have never met you. For this
reason, it’s actually starting to get a bit humiliating now because he’s
clearly not responding. Give up the ghost and find a man who actually
wants you. You become distracted When you’re chasing a man, this tends to become the focal point of
your life. It’s pretty stressful and time-consuming, after all. As such,
everything else becomes difficult. It gets hard to concentrate at work, at
home or at school. All other priorities recede into the distance and your
life effectively becomes temporarily put on hold. And for what? You are missing out on other guys One of the reasons we chase down men is because we’re deeply
attracted to them. But as soon as it becomes clear that the attraction
isn’t what you’d call mutual, it’s important that you realise when it’s time
to call it quits. Using up all your precious time and energy on just one guy who’s
evading you means that you’re likely missing out on lots of other top
guys who want you. Once you stop chasing a lost cause, you’re giving
yourself a chance to be caught by other men who are interested in you. Take yourself out of the race, take a breather and see what else is out
there. You become jealous You want this guy and you’ve been spending lots of months chasing
him down. Only, there’s now another girl on the scene who’s been
posting on his Facebook wall quite a lot recently. You’ve got an enemy
(an attractive one) and you’re now jealous and more distracted than
ever before. Even if you catch him, it doesn’t mean much Okay, so you’ve finally convince him that you’re worth a shot. You’ve
managed to capture his body and he’s agreed to spend some time with
you. You’ve won. Yay! Um. Not quite. See, while you might well have caught his body, it doesn’t mean that
you’ve ensnared his heart. They can be there with you physically, but
their spirit and mind can still be a million miles away. Although he’s
coming out for dinner with you, his mind might still be on other
questions: “What am I doing here?” “How do I get out of this?” “I can’t believe I managed to let her talk me into coming here
tonight.” It’s important to remember that guys who you have to chase tend to be
free spirits, which means they’re really hard to keep hold of. Don’t
believe for one minute that you’ve won just because you’re on a date
with him. You’ll feel like a failure Ultimately, you won’t succeed in your pursuit. As such, you will likely
feel like a failure after all those months of pointless chasing. He still
doesn’t like you – and this can really hurt your self-esteem. It’s better to give up as early as possible and move onto a guy who
does appreciate you. Why harm yourself like this? It isn’t worth it! He’s probably not a great guy Great guys don’t require any chasing. They’re totally upfront and open
with you, and they’re always available if you need them. They don’t go
hiding, and they certainly don’t let a lady wear herself out through
hunting him down. If a good guy wants to be with you, he will tell you. If he doesn’t, he’ll
keep stringing you along to see where this charade is going to end up. It’ll be one sided anyway Even if you do manage to convince him to go out with you, do you really
think it’s going to be anything other than one-sided? When you want to
go out for a romantic dinner tonight, he’ll be watching football with the
boys. When you want him to meet your parents, he’ll have another
excuse. He’s a free spirit who lives life his way. Source: Beauty and Tips
