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I THINK MY HUBBY IS CHEATING (relationship talk)

I THINK MY HUBBY IS CHEATING (relationship talk)

By pharm-vickymears in 28 Dec 2015 | 12:20
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[b]Hi vicky.... I have being seeing your advice on this site and I don't know if you can advice me on my situation.
I am a 28years old lady.... Am married with a 4year old son....
My marriage has being a splendid one, until two months ago when my hubby starts coming home late...
Although he was transfered to another branch of his company... And he has being using traffic has is excuse which I believe could be the problem and as a matter of fact, he spends the weekend with us..... but the problem is he do tell me he is definitely going to cheat on me... Sometimes he says it during a fight, but most times he says it jokingly..... I don't what to do.... Am afraid I will loose my man to someone else..... I am really worried and confused.... Pls I need your advice on this....[/b]
28 Dec 2015 | 12:20
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oh No!... At this point i'm typeless
28 Dec 2015 | 12:30
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[b]Hi my love..... You know situation really made me smile.... Sometimes ago when my tommy was coming out, francis once joking told me he will go and look for a flat tommy lady if I don't do something about my tommy..... I took it as a joke but I worked towards my tommy and became careful with it.... Men are like that.... They have a way of complaining to you about something but it's left to you to take note.... I can't say if your hubby is joking but which ever situation your issue might be... These are the ways you can fight it.... [color =red]1.Your relationship with God:-[/color] in every marriage God should be the foundation..... He should be the pillar holding the home..... Improve your relationship with God and invite him into your home..... Am so sure he will assist you even where you are at fault [color =red]2.What are the reasons behind the conversation:-[/color] sometimes we only hold what our partner says during an argument but we don't notice the reason for it.... Try and think of what made him say that to you.... What was he complaining about? Where did you go wrong? That will help you to know how to make amendment... [color =red]3. How do you handle issue during a fight?:-[/color] one mistakes women make is talking back at their husbands... I know it's not easy to just keep quiet... Men don't like it when you talk back at them, this behavior automatically sends them out..... Let him say everything in his mouth.... Don't disrespect him in the process by walking out on him... Just sit there and listen.... Even if you are right, let him calm down before you prove your point..... [color =red]4. Know when to talk:-[/color] The most difficult aspect for a lady is knowing when their partner will listen.... Try your possible best to study his mood..... Know when he will love to listen to you.... That will definitely reduce the volume of fights and it will strengthen your relationship....when I got married it was difficult for me too... Because he seems too difficult to understand... But learning to listen assisted me a lot [color =red]5. Improve your kitchen:-[/color] sometimes we make the mistake of cooking regular foods for our man...... They get fed up, learn more.. Thank God for internet today..... You can easily learn various types of food online and try it in your kitchen.... Giving him different delicacy makes him want to come home for more... [color =red]6. How do you take care of yourself:-[/color] we ladies feel relax once we are married, we believe no one is looking at you but nah... Your hubby is.... Do you know how he will feel when you both walk into a mall and all heads turn at you? Those periods make him feel so proud.... Taking good care of your skin and body generally makes your man love you continuously.... There are lots of skin care tutorials online... Join one of them.... Visit the GYM regularly... Make your skin glow..... Make him see that sexy lady it got married to.... It sometimes stressful getting back to your old self... But no stress is too much to get your hubby back..... Know what you eat too... [color =red]7. Jazz up your marriage:-[/color] After you must have amend your ways with the six things ahead.. Then you need to jazz up your marriage... How? Lemme give you a hint... Just look for a good saturday that you both are sure there is no outing.... Let your kid go spend the weekend with a relative.... Then walk around the house naked... Yh you are surprise.... You need to show off that new and glowing skin with sexy stature..... Just walk around innocently naked doing your normal chores.... He will ask you why? Just tell him you feel like..... He won't be able to resist..... So... Start up something in the sitting room... Prolong it in the kitchen and do some finishing touch under the cold shower..... You can also ask him to take you out for dinner.... Just when he is fully parked in the garage... Give him a crazy gig..... Yh I know you will say vicky is naughty.... But bet it with me he will be looking forward to the day your son will go spend a day with your relatives..... How you satisfy him makes him go crazy about you and he wants he more..... [color =purple]Now my love... I hope I have being able to help you...... So now shake your bom bom away from where you are sulking and work towards getting back your man...... Just go to the mall today and get the ingredient to his favorite meal... Don't stop there.... Get a sexy night wear..... Cook the meal... Rock your baby to bed on time... And let this night be a memorable starting to getting back your marriage....[/color] . . . . [color =orange]Vicky loves you[/color][/b] :)
28 Dec 2015 | 12:34
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I'm kindna confuse o. He tells you to the face that he'll cheat on you, wat kind of joke is that? Is there anything about you that he's complaining? If no, then he needs serious prayers. I'll advice you to seek help in prayers from your pastor, cause the man is no more normal. . . . [color =red] ......*.....*........ ...*.....*....*..... ..*.............*.... ..*.............*.... ...*...........*..... ....*.........*...... ......*.....*........ .........*............ [/color] [color =green] ......*.....*........ ...*.....*....*..... ..*.............*.... ..*.............*.... ...*...........*..... ....*.........*...... ......*.....*........ .........*............ [/color] [color =blue] ......*.....*........ ...*.....*....*..... ..*.............*.... ..*.............*.... ...*...........*..... ....*.........*...... ......*.....*........ ..........*........... [/color] [color =red] COMPLIMENT [/color][color =gold]OF THE[/color][color=green]SEASON[/color]
28 Dec 2015 | 12:35
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A tink u shuld call him, sit him down have a heart to heart talk telling him how u feel ... Ask him ur faults so u can improve in areas where u re not doin well.... Knw more bout him .... I THINK
28 Dec 2015 | 13:07
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28 Dec 2015 | 13:25
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Noted
28 Dec 2015 | 13:41
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as a matter of fact ur man may be d sarcastic type jokes about everything if u guys married bcos of love then it is impossible for him to cheat even ifbu have d most flaws and d worst body type he will still continue to love u
28 Dec 2015 | 13:44
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I dnt knw
28 Dec 2015 | 13:54
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I believe if u can work toward the advise of our motivational speaker things gonna turn around.........Aunty vicky finished it
28 Dec 2015 | 14:51
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Hmmmm
28 Dec 2015 | 15:24
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U two should sit down and sort things out
28 Dec 2015 | 15:51
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hmnnn...
28 Dec 2015 | 16:13
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[b]if I got u clearly u said he normally threatens to cheat on you whenever you guys have a quarrel or jokinly,but u didn't tell us if his attitude towards you have changed,if he no longer show you love as he used to,it may be a joke,it may be just a threat,it may be happening already,but honestly there is no evidence to nail him to his threat or his joke,I' would advice you to watch him closely and find out if he really cheats on you,other than mere speculations,because if you are wrong you may force him to really cheat on you.[/b]
28 Dec 2015 | 17:00
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hmm am speechless here o bt tinks she has given u a gud reply @Pharm-Vickymears
28 Dec 2015 | 17:29
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It's seems the joke is getting outta hand bt mind you(Girls) It might be a trap... Some Guys re so cunny that they go several miles in order to make a lady prove their love. But Dialogue Nd Compromise will do the magic
28 Dec 2015 | 17:44
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nice talk cus dats d only way she can save it
28 Dec 2015 | 17:45
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hmmmm i think the advice vicky gave is enough
28 Dec 2015 | 18:15
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Hmmmm!.. I fink ur husband z a funny kind.. Buh maybe he z tellin u dat incase u caught him cheating!.. So u wnt be suprised
29 Dec 2015 | 02:48
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well i think aunty vicky has said it all.... It is well with u
29 Dec 2015 | 03:06
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Similes @ advice number seven
29 Dec 2015 | 03:11
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dat guys 4 u always finding a way 2 complain of everytin and anytin but am sure ur guy is not cheatin on u.If he is he wont hav d gut 2 jokinly say it but he may start cheating on u if u dont tightin ur love grip on him lik dresin up anytime he is around,kissing him all d time and note u can also kiss him in d public so as 2 show d world he is urs and also put on little or noting wen sleepin on d bed with him
29 Dec 2015 | 03:13
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and u can improve on ur cookin just like vicki hav said early
29 Dec 2015 | 03:18
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menh Vicky u d BEST...... u say it all....
29 Dec 2015 | 05:54
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Vicky has said it all
29 Dec 2015 | 08:07
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I hv no clue on dz issue
29 Dec 2015 | 08:28
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Yeah I agree ,with vicky ,Dr love ,but the man sef he thinks he is still dating you ?? What kind of talk is that !
29 Dec 2015 | 08:57
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Ko soro mo @pharm-vickymears don finish d talk... To d person who sent this pls keenly flow those 7 points nd see d difference. #Goodluck
29 Dec 2015 | 09:24
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Hmmmmm
29 Dec 2015 | 10:59
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As a guy if i were u i'l simply go wit [color=blue]@vicky[color]'s advice,if he doesnt change then u're on ur own
29 Dec 2015 | 16:14
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Just trust. He will come around
30 Dec 2015 | 17:02
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My dear Sister, If I were you I will not just read what our dearest motivator @pharm-vickymears has said but rather I will write down in my heart and diary so that I don't go looking for this amazing solution to your cries. * * Cos I am assuring you might not find it anywhere again but only here. * * Nice one @pharm-vickymears
30 Dec 2015 | 17:40
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Thanks so much my unique assistant....... @valentinelv
31 Dec 2015 | 01:16
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good work @pharm-vickymears
1 Jan 2016 | 06:02
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noted!
2 Jan 2016 | 17:20
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Thanks @gentleme
3 Jan 2016 | 11:10
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