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I Saw Her Through  School; Now I'm No  More Qualified To Marry  Her

I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her

By Blessedgirl in 17 Aug 2015 | 08:55
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I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her

by ConfessionsNgr.

Had I known all my labour on her would be in futility, I wouldn’t have spent my hard earned money on her.

I looked forward to a bright future with her but my dreams have been shattered by the very one I gave true love. I’m an OND holder but into a lucrative business which is doing very well. I met my girl online four years ago, though that notwithstanding, people can meet anywhere. I was already done with my OND while she was in 200L in the university. She told me of how her mother died during the delivery of their lastborn and her dad had to remarry leaving her to cater for herself most times.

I felt the urge to render the little assistance I could and I started giving her money for her upkeep that was like six months after we met. I can even remember paying her tuition fees one session.

Now four years down the memory lane, after her graduation and NYSC, and getting a job in an ICT firm with a good pay, it suddenly dawned on her that she can't marry an OND holder because of the gap in education. I told her it is the love between us that matters most but she said she loves me but we are not compatible education wise as she still want to further her education.

All these years she was “gulping” my money, calling me sweet names, she didn’t see the incompatibility. When her future was in disarray I was her messiah (am not boasting here) but now that she can look forward to a bright future I’m no more in the picture.
17 Aug 2015 | 08:55
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Take heart man, sh*t do happens at times in life dat doesnt mean ur doomed my bro.. dnt worry abt anytin spent on her, be it ur time, money, affection, etc jux let her be, one tin dat kills a soul faster dan disease is d conscience.. beside u didnt say if u guys discuzd n agreed on marrying 4rm d on set, u only said u lukd 4wd 2 a bright future wit her, well be it as it may, no nid cryn ova spilled milk.. u shall surely fnd ur true soul mate, jux let her be n let her conscience judge or vindicate her as d case may be.
17 Aug 2015 | 09:21
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That some habit of some babes though not all Yu will take heart man Make babes no come pour hot water 4 ma head if I Talk much
17 Aug 2015 | 10:01
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Hmmm just speachless You see I will advice u to 4get about her completely she as already make up her mind And I will also advice you too to try ur best and further ur education @ least you can do part time degree(national open uni) even do ur masters after that,that will boost ur morale nd if fate have it that you met again in future she wunt look down on ur as half educated
17 Aug 2015 | 11:31
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haba!!! Datz not fair oo
17 Aug 2015 | 13:51
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hmmmm I'm once In ur shoes..but not as much as ur own
17 Aug 2015 | 14:14
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Hmmm
17 Aug 2015 | 14:48
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Guy 4get her Jo ur own future go better maybe not by education so u need to move on pls
17 Aug 2015 | 15:30
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She Don Nak Maga be Dat........ U were pouring water into a basket......
17 Aug 2015 | 15:52
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BRO, I know how you feel but no girl worth your tears,just embrace life with whatever it presents. Believe me everything happens for a reason and life would have been more terrible for you if she had married you without her heart accepting you. Just look around, your soulmate might be around stirring at you.
17 Aug 2015 | 16:08
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OBSERVATION.... Girls not commenting.
17 Aug 2015 | 16:12
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Move on wit ur life and let her be,she wil surely remember d times she spent wit u in d near future and regret her actions and like someone earlier said,try nd further ur academics so that she wouldnt av a cause to mock u
17 Aug 2015 | 17:40
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No mind am, she cnt rili eat her cake n av it bk....she wil gt her own piece soon
18 Aug 2015 | 04:23
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So touching!
18 Aug 2015 | 05:36
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I pocket my comment 4 my back pocket make i carry am d go
18 Aug 2015 | 06:53
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Shit happen buh life goes on.........God knws d bept
18 Aug 2015 | 13:20
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Shit happen buh life goes on.....God knws d bept
18 Aug 2015 | 13:21
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The 1st major expenses a man should make on a lady is her bride's price den other can follow.
18 Aug 2015 | 14:47
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