This happened over 2 months ago
but it's manifesting even stronger
now. Yes I sometimes patronise sex
workers in clubs and high-end
restaurants. About two months ago when my
brother returned from the north, he
told me to take him to a club to cool
off. When we got to a near by club he
was like "Bro nothing dey here o.." I
was confused. The club was bubbling so i asked what he meant and when I
figured out I took him to a different
place where there was "something".
On getting there, he called in one of
the girls and I was moved just by the
way the girl dressed and my wife was out of town so I asked the girl if she
has a friend then she happily brought
her friend. My brother and I took the
girls to a nearby hotel to "cool off". Fast forward to 3 weeks later from
that night, I and the girl I went down
with continued communicating. The
girl was/is actually a student of the
university there which impressed me.
I observed her fluent English and polished lifestyle compared to the
other ladies there and I asked her
why she was hooking.. she explained
her story to me. Many times we have
sex i treat her the way I treat my wife
unlike the way I handle other prostitutes. Over time we became
friends. She calls sometimes to say
hi. It got to a stage she comes over to
my place, cooks for me, we make love
and she doesn't collect any money. I don't know who fell in love first
between myself and her but all I know
is I am in love with her even my
brother told me that he suspects she
is in love with me. She called me 4
days ago and told me she would like to see me so I invited her to my office
to talk and she told me how she felt. I
wanted to tell her I am married but
even I am in love with her deep down
within myself so I told her to calm
down and let's observe how things go. I am confused right now, I don't know
what to do. My wife returns in a few
weeks I am so confused.