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I FELT BETRAYED

I FELT BETRAYED

By XTOPHER in 31 Mar 2016 | 04:05
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am a pastor, after my bible college experience i processed my promotion to become a pastor which requires me to get married. Then i met this young lady, a member of same church, our relatonship lasted for three months before i propose marriage to her, we did church wedding and became husband and wife, our first child were twins.
But after the birth of our twins which were girls, i discover my wife is a divorcy previously married with two kids, since then i felt betrayd and the love went down. Am not happy with my life in this marriage.
My problem now is:
if i send her away i will lose my job as a pastor
am not happy living with her
my people help me out.
31 Mar 2016 | 04:05
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Do you love her???? ask if she wants to go bk to her formr husby ... Discus it wit th church
31 Mar 2016 | 04:15
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@victoriouschild come and do the list, have paid so dont ask of your pament.
31 Mar 2016 | 04:22
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31 Mar 2016 | 04:24
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hmmmmmm @xtopher u don carry ur wahala come again bah :( well bros why did u marry a lady u Dont knw her background ? dey way out now is nt divorce shaa find out what really happened DAT her husband divorced her find out if dey man want her back if he do den u can let her go but nt doing what I said u must be with her o weda u like it or nt abi u wear glass b4 u marry her for church
31 Mar 2016 | 04:27
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Why did you marry a lady without doing some background checking on her ? To me since you have already married I will just tell you to forgive her and continue with your marriage
31 Mar 2016 | 04:46
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Deceit is enough reason for ur church to grant u divorce.
31 Mar 2016 | 05:01
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present d matter to other senoir pastors nd hear their opinion, find out d reason for d divorce nd settle or better still forgive her nd move oo everyone is bound to make mistake
31 Mar 2016 | 05:09
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Lol..bros what z d meaning of love?i think d simple meaning of love z just SACRIFICE..i think if u are not inlove with her or unhappy with the mariage just bc she lied to u, that means u are never inlove with her rite from day one..u ave to forgive her..i knw z hard to do forgive,bt mariage z not datting that u can go into and get out any day that u want...forgive her past and focus on the future of ur family.. Moral lesson;always investigate ur partiner very well b4 mariage..
31 Mar 2016 | 05:26
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@xtopher if to say u sabi calculation na in for better u for don calculate am say DAT kind tin fit happen and u go don ready d solution, but since u don't knw den I think u should........... wait oh sebi u say u be paator , u no pray to god b4 u marry am in. But on as serious note if u did pray to god and all this is happening then it is a trial.
31 Mar 2016 | 05:28
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do not forget your marriage is for better or worse since you fail to do your findings b4 your wedding, so forgive and let go.
31 Mar 2016 | 06:04
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@frankkay and @t-dak una judgement na another epic writing o, @frankkay your award is on the way for best coun..... Make shotup
31 Mar 2016 | 07:38
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You shuld have knwn her background before any other tin........just forgive ad stick with her cos you cant give her another divorce
31 Mar 2016 | 08:40
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lol @xtopher wic one is coun .....
31 Mar 2016 | 09:10
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I think u should discuss the issue with the other pastors and make them know ur feelings
31 Mar 2016 | 10:15
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damn sone problems pass me oo
31 Mar 2016 | 11:08
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Straight to d point jae... She decieved u... Inform higher authorities.... Though the Bible is not in support of divorce...but what is d point in staying married with someone u re no longer comfortable with?
31 Mar 2016 | 11:11
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jst 4gve
31 Mar 2016 | 11:37
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In the first place, pastors are called by God and not employed by God. If that were to be the case, many would've have written application letters to churches to be employed as pastors. As for the matter at hand, the lady is a divorcy so there's no husband to go back to. I don't think leaving her and the twins because of her past life is right. Love in marriage is all about making decisions. If you truly love her, you will forgive her and continue with your lives. Don't forget that you made a vow at the altar to stay with her for better or worst.
31 Mar 2016 | 13:30
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Hmmmm typeless
31 Mar 2016 | 15:45
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hmm!! 3mnths courtship?? 2small,,,tk d issue to church, forgive her
31 Mar 2016 | 16:24
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forgive her
31 Mar 2016 | 17:27
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Call off the marriage
31 Mar 2016 | 20:17
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this one is ....
31 Mar 2016 | 21:21
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@becca ...is what?
1 Apr 2016 | 02:36
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hmm did I just hear u say u will lose ur job... .pastor eeeeh , if u are a pastor u must av other tinz doing so u don't av to depend on church, as 4 d marriage is left 4 u, is ur choice
1 Apr 2016 | 06:47
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serious o @XTOPHER
2 Apr 2016 | 06:36
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Na me send u???
3 Apr 2016 | 07:40
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Let the church executives know about it
4 Apr 2016 | 06:10
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Pastors and problems... That's total pretense!
25 Apr 2016 | 19:20
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Pretense in what sense @tennie
26 Apr 2016 | 04:08
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I mean the lady pretended.. And its an offence.. The pastor shouldn't be make 2 suffer for it.. No more love in dat marriage.. Its just punishment.. Dey shld let him divorce dat wife
27 Apr 2016 | 10:18
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