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I Am Very Confused What Should I Do?

I Am Very Confused What Should I Do?

By Mr in 10 Aug 2016 | 03:46
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For sometime now i have been
trying to hide this problem of
mine,but now i can't hide it any
longer because its really getting
out of hand i just had to muster
courage to type this because a problem shared ,they say is Half
solved. whenever i see a girl i like i would
want to get her and assure my
self that i will date her and
eventually marry her i will also tell
my friends that once i get her am
not going to date any other lady.but when the lady agrees to
date me after highest a month i
would get tired of her and break-
up with her. the longest
relationship i ever had was
2months and it made me feel bitter when i heard a guy saying he
is in the 3rd year now with his g.f i
was just wondering how he did
that. its really not funny i told my
bestie bout it and she said maybe
its because am an introvert and its because i don't have sex with
my g.f so it gets boring for me and
currently am dating a girl but am
getting bored again as usually and
i really love this lady but i fear i will
soon break-up with her again and i don't want this to happen...pls
how can i enjoy a relationship
without involving sex ?? Matured minds please its really
important and perhaps others
might benefit from your advice
also.thanks!
10 Aug 2016 | 03:46
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10 Aug 2016 | 03:50
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Hmmmm
10 Aug 2016 | 03:51
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Nt mature.. i need d advice too
10 Aug 2016 | 03:52
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You have to. Hmmmm. Ermmmm. Am coming first. I wuld cum bk wen I remember wat I want to say
10 Aug 2016 | 03:53
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ummm
10 Aug 2016 | 03:56
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u need prayer. So just pray to GOD to help you I'm sure he will help u out
10 Aug 2016 | 04:12
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lol
10 Aug 2016 | 04:13
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I don't know what to advice you because am kind of facing this same problem.
10 Aug 2016 | 04:14
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You don't actually need a spiritual intervention
10 Aug 2016 | 04:24
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Well bro..... 1...I think understanding ur own personality and hers is a must. 2...Find ur weakness bro..... sex or no sex relationship is cool..... what makes it boring is what u should find out... It might be u are the dormant partner and not the active one.... I think u should work on that too. 3...What you want.... You knw u might like what u are seeing and at the same time u might not want or love it.... 4...Attraction.... What attracts u to them... Try changing the orientation. 5...Determination.... You might be weak when it comes to determination... 6...You might not have found her yet.... yeah the flesh of ur flesh.... when u in love or u come across a true and genuine love u don't get bored u gonna love it and u want it to end. 7...Past experience.... 8...Pressure group... 9...Mentality about love and ladies in general. 10...Talk to ur God... . . . . Though I no be relationship manager ooooo but from my own point of view i think u should check those it might work.... Thanks.
10 Aug 2016 | 04:25
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Failure to really know what we wanted sometimes put us in this kind of dilemma.
10 Aug 2016 | 04:26
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@victoriouschild oghini..... I beg no face that kind thing Oooo I beg.
10 Aug 2016 | 04:28
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I really av no advice whatsoever, all i can say is to go to God in prayer
10 Aug 2016 | 04:29
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See as @t-dak listed it as if it's a story
10 Aug 2016 | 04:31
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@softie lol leave me joor. Na Wetin my small mind gree reason out be that ooooo.
10 Aug 2016 | 04:59
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It's kind of funny bro, but am still confused of what could make one get tired of a girl he loves when you have not sex each other, what you are experiencing is when a guy gets excess sex from his gf and gets tired of her in the process of searching for new hole to bleep.
10 Aug 2016 | 05:07
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@victoriouschild abeg no get vis problem o, because this one o strong gidi.
10 Aug 2016 | 05:09
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Lol... Shey i hold u nii @t-dak wetin ur small mind fit reason, abi u dey talk from xperience :g
10 Aug 2016 | 05:15
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lol @softie yeye girl
10 Aug 2016 | 05:20
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Lol... Not me ooh @t-dak
10 Aug 2016 | 06:05
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@T-dak et @Xtopher I will be madly in love with a guy for the first three months but after those months the next thing I feel for him will be hatred and I don't know why
10 Aug 2016 | 07:39
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@victoriouschild I have something similar to that....just kinda different I don't love at all. And if I do..... It fades away.... I don't have a heart.... am kinda heartless. like what am being called... I don't regret or feel sober about it... That's just me. . . . . . Am working on my like seriously Cos I don't think I gat a heart to love.. . . . ... .. . . . You still have a chance to love and to be loved..... For now what u ve to do is to control like be in control of 1.... ur inner most feelings... 2.... ur sense organs... especially the brain and the heart..... these two are the strongest.. . . I don't knw what u ve been through in the past but the experience of the past keeps hunting back sometimes..... YOU might be the time DAT believe In fairy tales.....expecting prince charming to sweep u off ur feet but reverse is the case. Ur expectations from ur ideal man or what u want him to have like qualities, in term of possession and all that.... it might affect too . . . And one more thing..... U might not really love him it might be lust. Try working on those dear it might help. but one thing I knw is..... If the real and ideal man comes u gonna love him all ur life.
10 Aug 2016 | 10:02
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