Loving relationships can last a lifetime, but many
relationships fail to last a lifetime because couples
don’t know how to better a relationship with time and
help each other along the way..
Love is such a magical feeling, one that can fill your life with happy moments and special memories.
But look around and you’ll see that more than half the
people in love are really not happy, or as happy as they
should be. It’s sad, but it’s actually their own fault.
Most lovers don’t really know how to better a relationship with time and live happier.
Find out how to better a relationship and stay happy with these tips
HOW TO BETTER A RELATIONSHIP
If there’s one big reason why love fails for many people, it’s because most of us don’t understand that love is fickle and changing.
It is said that love lasts forever, and it’s true.
But no one’s ever said love stays the same forever. And that makes all the difference between having a great relationship and just living together under one roof.
To better a relationship and have a great time, you need to evolve in the relationship just as love evolves through time.
In the start of a relationship, either of you may be willing to go out of your way for your partner, or try to please them every day with affection and gifts.
But this can’t go on forever, or your relationship would end even before you know it. The flutter of infatuation is good,
but that really isn’t love.
Wooing a partner is only the first phase in love. And just like
that, every now and then, love changes and evolves to fit
perfectly in your relationship. As long as the relationship
evolves as love evolves and grows, a couple can stay happily
in love forever.
The moment one of you decides to give up on your partner
or stray out of the relationship, love stops to evolve. Instead
it disintegrates and starts to vanish.
So if you want to know how to better a relationship and keep
love alive in a relationship, keep the love alive by bringing
different phases of love together at one point of time. Use
these pointers and you’ll stay happily in love, and grow as
individuals along the way.
Now we’re not going to give you the 101 ways to show your
love to your partner. Love needs to be created from within,
and to do that, you need to stir the desires of love and lust
from within your partner, even if you’ve been together for
decades.
If you’re not attracted to your partner, mentally and
physically, of course, love will stop evolving in your lives.
Use these tips and keep love on its toes all your lives.
KEEP L0VE INTERESTING
As the years pass by and love’s way past the wooing and
impressing phase, most couples stop trying to please their
partner. If you’re not doing anything special now and then,
you’re definitely taking your partner for granted. You don’t
care about your lover because you think they’ll never leave
you anyways, so why should you even bother trying to
please them. It’s harsh, but true.
If you’re wondering how to better a relationship, learn to
keep your relationship interesting. Go away on weekend
getaways, have an occasional night out together, and pick up
little gifts for each other now and then. Explore new sides of
love and experience new joys together. New experiences
keep the relationship exciting and new, and that can help
bring both of you closer.
And here’s an unconventional tip that could make your
partner desire you more. When you’re out at a social
gathering with friends, don’t spend all your time with your
partner. Go on and flirt with other people of the opposite
sex too. You may think this would infuriate your partner, but
in reality it would only make your partner desire you more,
as long as you play it well!
SPEND TIME TOGETHER & C0MPETE WITH EACH OTHER!
As much as love is about sharing and experiencing, it’s also
about competing and reminding your partner how good you
really are! If you were at a conference and your partner was
giving a powerful and inspiring speech to an audience,
wouldn’t you beam with pride and happiness?
Why is that? It’s because you just realized how good your
partner is, and how lucky you are to be with your partner.
All our lives, we need constant reminders from the people
around us to know how lucky we are to be with our partner.
Love works its charm, but love is nothing unless you are
impressed by your partner now and then.
If you want to understand how to better a relationship,
make your partner see how good you are, and your partner
will look at you in awe and will love you for it. And secondly,
play video games together or indulge in some sport like
squash, paintball, karting, or whatever else that works for
you. Friendly competition keeps the adrenalin high and also
increases the awe factor. And as long as both of you are
winning some and losing some games, you’ll always have
something to look up to in your partner. And that, keeps the
love and desire up and running like a clock on solar power.
GIVE EACH OTHER SPACE
For a relationship to work out, you need to spend a lot of time
together , and yet you need to give each other enough
space to miss each other. Spending time with friends or
doing something you personally enjoy can make you a
better individual. And as long as you evolve as a person,
your relationship will evolve too.
The start of a relationship is always exciting because you’re
learning new things about your lover every day. But as the
months pass by, the conversations drift to ‘how was work’
and ‘how was your day’. Why does that happen? Well, simply
because you have nothing else that’s exciting enough to talk
about.
In these cases, love wants to evolve and find new
ways to better the relationship, but you’re not doing
anything interesting yourself.
Knowing how to better a relationship is simple. Learn to
evolve and keep the relationship fresh. And before you
know it you’ll fall more in love with every passing day.
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