– Woman shares horrible
Valentine’s Day
experience – Warns younger girls
against sex with
unauthorised person Like every other girl, I was
happy to have a boyfriend, at
least, some I could spend the
Valentine’s Day celebration
with. This, for every ‘happening girl’
in our time, was a dream come
true. And I really looked
forward to the day with lots of
hope and positivity. Little did I
know that it was a day that would always haunt me
anytime Valentine’s Day is
being celebrated. My name is Shola Bright, a
graduate of Accounting from
the University of Calabar.
Anytime I share this story, I
get this nauseating feeling as I
always tell myself that it was an event that I could have
avoided had I tried to be a little
more assertive. Me and Segun, who was two
years ahead of me at the time,
had been dating for just two
months before Valentine’s Day
celebration. He asked me
about my plans for the day and I told him I had none. So,
he said we would go out. “Thank God I will spend
this year’s Val with a
boyfriend,” I muttered to myself after the news about
our date on Val’s Day what
with my inability to tie down a
guy to celebrate the Lovers’
day with me in the last three
years. My previous boyfriends were
either too busy with classes or
out of town, so I had always
watched all my girlfriends dig it
out with their guys on Lovers’
day. But this year happened to be my year and the fact that it
was a Saturday made it
merrier although I had vowed
to remain a virgin until
marriage. That Saturday afternoon, I
woke up earlier than my usual
time and tried to look my best
without revealing too much.
With a flowing red gown which
revealed a little more than the usual (although I had tried to
avoid this) and my back all
bare, I moved out of the
bedroom looking all set for a
glorious evening. Segun came knocking at
exactly 4.30pm and the smile
and look on his face
suggested that he liked what
he saw. “Wow! You look so
beautiful,” he exclaimed. Without much ado, I smiled
back with a very ‘shy’ “thanks, Baby,” and before I could say Jack, he took my
lips and devoured it for the
next 20 seconds or
thereabouts. I was shivering when he pulled
away as it was my first kiss in
over three years. I excused
myself, went into the ladies’
and adjusted my make up
before returning to meet him seated on the couch, smiling
wryly. If only I knew he was
planning that moment! All the while, none of us said
anything about the kiss or
where we were going until we
took a cab outside our campus
hostel. “Where are we going?” I asked. And he replied, “Just follow me, I promise you an
unusual Valentine’s Day
celebration” and indeed, it was! My hostel mates had also
gone out with their respective
guys, so there was nobody to
come with me and Segun, at
least so that I would be
guaranteed of safety (although I did not envisage any
untoward attitude from him). We had a really nice time
moving from a popular eatery
in town, to the cinema and I
was smiles as he kept giving
me surprises. Unknown to me,
I was already getting horny because he kept staring at me
in a way that suggested that
he wanted to eat me up. Maybe he also realised this, I
cannot say, but his hand kept
touching the outside of my
boobs which heightened the
sensation that was building up
in me. On our way home, he bought
chocolates, yes… chocolates!
And that was the beginning of
the end for me. We took it
quietly at the back of the cab
as we both cuddled. In no time, we were in his
house, a well furnished mini-
flat, where he stayed alone. I was really hoping that I
would keep my virginity that
night, but then I was also
hoping to make out with this
guy who ignited a crazy desire
on my inside. Gently but steadily, he held me
by my waist and looked me in
the eyes. At this time, I was
ready for anything that was
going to happen, but I really
hoped that my virginity would stay intact. He took my lips… softly, I
moaned. I kissed him back
and that was all I could
remember before I found
myself in his bed, in his warm
hands. Then I called out his name
gently, “Segun, can you help me remain a virgin,
please?” He replied with a husky “Yes“ With my clothes all gone,
Segun told me that he would
just touch me and not do
anything. I was really glad and
was ready to throw myself into
the whole thing. We both rolled on the bed and
were having a nice time until
that defining moment. Segun said he wanted to give
me a blow job and I agreed.
he removed my panties, and
went deep with his tongue.
Man, it felt so good that I held
his head to my groin until a sound startled me. Poop! That was all I heard as I
saw Segun going in and out of
me. I knew the deed had been
done. I had lost my virginity!
With my hands on my head, I
could not undo what had been done, other than to allow the
tears flow freely down my
cheeks. “Segun, this was not what
we agreed on. You have
ruined my life, what will I
tell my younger ones?” He simply continued thrusting
and only occasionally
muttered a “sorry baby” moan
until he grunted and left his
fluid in me. I just took my clothes, went
into the bathroom, had a really
hot bath amid hot tears and left
the house never to see him
again. But what would that
have changed? I could not muster the courage
to tell anybody, but that was
the beginning of my downfall
as I almost soon became a
dog on the streets, with almost
every touch leading to another session. Just for the young girls out
there, Valentine’s Day is not
one for you to have sex with
anybody apart from your
husband. I am now happily married with
three kids, but only now can I
share this story with you. Happy Valentine’s Day
celebration!
