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HOW BEST CAN I APPROACH HER ( relationship talk)

HOW BEST CAN I APPROACH HER ( relationship talk)

By pharm-vickymears in 16 Mar 2016 | 05:15
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I sincerely love her but she is like 1 or 2 years old than me... I have thought about talking to her for long about my feelings but i couldn't... Not that i find it hard to woo girks but she just seems different....
Recently i found out that she is an orphan and was raped last month …
How best will i approach her without making it look like a pity
party?



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16 Mar 2016 | 05:15
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1. relationship has nothing to do with age.... its all about what you feel.... since she is in a serious emotional trauma right now... I will advice you not to talk to her about your feelings... let go of it... but you can do a good job of being her friend... a good friend.. don't talk or act as if you know about her current situation or else she talks about it to you... if she doesn't want friendship let her be and watch her from afar... believe me.. rape leaves its victim traumatized for a long period... it only takes the strong ones to survive and get back to their normal self... but it gonna take a while... study her well before you take steps... keep loving.. its healthy... . . . Vicky loves you :)
16 Mar 2016 | 05:22
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Does She Know That You Know That She Was Raped??? Does She Know That You Know That She's An Orphan??? Her Age, Being An Orphan, And Being Raped, Was She The One Who Told You These Things??? We All Have Our Sour Past, We All Have Problems Of Our Own, If She Was The One Who Revealed These Things To You, She Definitely Likes You, Dont Rush It, Take It Easy With Her, And Just Do Your Best For Her, Later You Can Tell Her,,,,,, Apparently, If She Wasnt The One That Reveal Those Sensitive Things To You, Keep Your Lips Sealed About It And Tell Her How You Feel ... [color =red]#That's The Best Advise My Big Head Could Give[/color]
16 Mar 2016 | 05:27
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I go with u @ele1
16 Mar 2016 | 05:36
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nice advice @Ele1 nd @pharm-vickymears
16 Mar 2016 | 05:51
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hmmmm...
16 Mar 2016 | 07:33
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Do you really love her~Come on guys or is it pity you felt for her because of her emotional trauma. cause she was raped..or an orphan. so guys pity is quite different from love. so I advise you know what you want and what you actually feel
16 Mar 2016 | 09:36
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Wow! Something related happened to me. The guy nd i are age-mates bt i happened to be his senior in secondary school At inception, we fought, he took off his mind, he later came back, appeared to be a close friend, till i fell in love
16 Mar 2016 | 11:18
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While age is just a number and shouldn't really count in relationships, I still doubt if it's truly love that you feel for her. I feel you might be lusting after her and coupled with her recent emotional trouble, you felt pity for her. I see someone who wanna enjoy the show while the dun. Last. But if you truly love her, you'd just be bold and tell her how you feel undermining the age difference but it shouldn't be now that she's traumatised. Be a good, concerned and caring friend for now @pharm-vickymears Nah you dey ask d question dey answer am as well? Lol
16 Mar 2016 | 11:40
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@ele1 has said it all but in part two of the matter, if you have the will and bold enough confront her that, if you had express your feelings for earlier maybe the rape thing might not come, i think she will understand you when you apply wisdom.
16 Mar 2016 | 13:08
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lol...someone ask me via inbox... relationship talk is like a program I hold here.... so I add my advice and ask for people's advice too @kingsbest
16 Mar 2016 | 13:10
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[color =blue] Lol @Ele1 u finally admitted that your head is big huh?? my only advice is just give her time b4 telling her abt yur feeling and get close to her..... ehn but I don't really support a relationship where the girl is older (am just saying) [/blue]
16 Mar 2016 | 14:26
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@chinyenorah Whats Ur P With My Big Head Na, Go And Have Ur Own To *tongue Out*
16 Mar 2016 | 18:12
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I have similar case, this girl is my crush around my workinq place bt I find it difficult to initiate a chat with her and sometimes we do throw glances to eachother.. Pls what can I also do or whats the best way to approach her ? Thanks for ur replies :-)
16 Mar 2016 | 21:21
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Express ur feelings not sympathy
17 Mar 2016 | 03:09
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Maybe i will skip this one
17 Mar 2016 | 08:09
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hmm
17 Mar 2016 | 11:10
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Start from a friend, nd act as if u know nothing about her
18 Mar 2016 | 05:57
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Hmm
19 Mar 2016 | 02:21
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