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Help a damsel in Distress....

Help a damsel in Distress....

By Dinky_Charmie in 22 Jan 2016 | 16:23
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[b] Damsel In Distress.

"I'm in a 7month old relationship with my dream man,Ademola.He's all that I desire in a man,and we plan getting married next year.However there's a 'But' which bothers me.Ademola rarely apologizes,even when he's wrong.I do the apologizing in our relationship.I know he loves me and he shows it every other way.But I'm bothered about this singular habit of his.I'm confused.What do you think I should do? Help a damsel in distress biko![/b]
22 Jan 2016 | 16:23
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Why not let him know? And if he cant apologise when he's wrong and u love him. Pls go to God in prayer
22 Jan 2016 | 16:42
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Hmmmmmm
22 Jan 2016 | 16:42
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Tell him yourself, tell him in the best moment which each and every word of yours will sink in, then he will observe it himself, and i assure you, he will make changes
22 Jan 2016 | 17:08
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Hmmmm...i beleive that love can change people...just make him to understand hw important it z to apologies when u wrong someone..
22 Jan 2016 | 17:24
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I humblely invite @pharm-vickymears to this she wil gv us d best tips
22 Jan 2016 | 17:45
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Well......apology to me doesn't mean you that is apologizing is wrong and your partner right, it does means that you value ur relationship above ur ego. Have you 4goten that it is only a strong mind that apologizes when it's wrong and that it takes even a stronger mind to apologize even when it's right? Beliv me, ur guy might b feeling guilty inwardly but he is timid or shy to xpress it, to u, u might see it as being strong-minded but to us that understand, it is fear n timidity. Call him and talk to him, however, don't stop apologizing.
22 Jan 2016 | 17:57
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Well,Damsel u have got to know this that majority of men pride themself qnd it has gotten the better part of them which ur fiancee or bf might fall in d'category but ur action can help nd change him,why dont u try talking to him abt it nd tell him how u feel abt it i blv he wil piut it into consideration if he truly loves u
23 Jan 2016 | 02:58
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sit him down n talk tinz out
23 Jan 2016 | 03:14
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Ego and pride is what we girls now face with the guys.they will know they did something wrong yet they won't admit it and apologise which is very wrong My dear remember marriage is a life time if you can't tolerate it any more please tell him Your mind if he does not change you quit the relationship.@becky
23 Jan 2016 | 04:00
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[b]He nids God intervention and counselling[/b]
23 Jan 2016 | 04:11
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I'm in agreement with those who said you should talk to him. Sit him down, calmly and respectfully tell him what's bothering you. Share your thoughts and fears with him. I'm sure it'd work out. Note: u got to approach him when he's in a very good mood. and the manner of ur approach matters a lot too. Before doing so, pray to God to help u reach his heart and to get a favourable result. ..... Just like someone said, never stop apologising. When he notices this, he might surprise u one day and humbly apologise when he's wrong. Setting the example is really going to be effective.
23 Jan 2016 | 04:29
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Hmmm
23 Jan 2016 | 04:58
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its well
23 Jan 2016 | 05:45
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Anger management z very important in a relationship nd am sure u shuld summon courage nd tel him at a very hapi moment wht u hv in mind am sure it would work. Not in a harse tune ooooooooo
23 Jan 2016 | 06:36
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@invincible hope u hv stp dz all ur anger stuff coz e don tey stephanie tok abt am.
23 Jan 2016 | 06:39
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[color =maroon]Men and their pride sha!!![/color]
23 Jan 2016 | 09:18
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ermm,,deve said et ol..i support dizzy angel
23 Jan 2016 | 09:55
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Erhmmmmmm
23 Jan 2016 | 13:18
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Talk 2 him
23 Jan 2016 | 15:38
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hmmmm my pple of said it all....
23 Jan 2016 | 16:24
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There is nothing u can do than to let him knw hw u feel abt it. Pour out ur mind to him.
23 Jan 2016 | 18:28
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Tell him na, since u guyz love each other, he will definately change cos am sure he does nt wanna loose u!
24 Jan 2016 | 09:12
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[b]@roes thanks for the I.v..... Am so sorry am just seeing it . . @prestigiousfirstlady a man can apologize to you in so many ways..... Yh... I know when he tells you that "I AM SORRY" means something to you.. But the fact is it's nt always important..... Men have a naughty way of showing pride.... Saying sorry is one of them... So my dear.. Don't be distress over the fact that he didn't say sorry..... My own question is.... Does he show a sign of remorse over his attitude? Does he try pleasing you and making you happy when he has done it wrong? Does he try his best not to repeat the same mistake several time? How sure are you that he loves you? If you have a positive response to this... Then... He saying I am sorry isn't very much important.... But... Try talk to him about it and let I'm realize how much you appreciate it than other ways he shows he is sorry... He might change.... And if he is so adapt to it that it is difficult for him to change.... Just accept him the way he is... . . . [color =orange]vicky loves you :)[/color][/b]
24 Jan 2016 | 09:47
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@pharm-vickymears tnx dear .........
24 Jan 2016 | 10:05
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Hmmmn just talk to him about him,air your mind out to him..i guess his ego overtook him or he's feeling too proud to apologize..buh ehem who is the damsel in distress @Prestigiousfirstlady?
24 Jan 2016 | 14:06
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@besty a friend of mine
24 Jan 2016 | 14:27
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@pharm-vickymears uwc I always like the way u advice on relationship tips .... hope wen I will marry I will fine some one with ur character... ur hubby is a lucky man
24 Jan 2016 | 18:11
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If u r satisfied wit d relationship go ahead. No human is perfect since u knw his own but. Den u kip apologizing non stop
25 Jan 2016 | 11:34
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Some guys are just like that....... i was even like that(very stubborn and doesn't compromise their ego) till i met my girlfriend. She never keeps quite and keeps reminding you that you must say sorry. she will pester you till you succumb and as a way of avoiding her pestering, complains and even nagging, I've learnt to always and quickly say sorry. Damsel! You mustn't keep quite when he refuses to apologize. Thank God you affirmed that he loves you.
26 Jan 2016 | 05:27
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