My name is Charity Omorogiuwa. I was married to a man for 2yrs 8 months before my husband died and left me wit our son. I suffered and raised my kid alone because i was neglected by my husbands people and i returned to my parent when my husbands people started making attempts to kill my son because of property. I left everything for them and took my son and ran. My father and a few uncles returned the dowry. My son is 14 yrs old now and a man i have been in a relationship with for about 4months now is asking my hand in marriage. i told him wat happened to me and that i have a child, he said no problem that he love me not my past but the problem now is he asked me not to let one know in his family dt i ve a child. i ask him why, he said the mother and family will not be in support if they find out i have a grown up son. I have been thinking about the whole thing and i dont know what to do. My mother in law to be is very nice to me and I know that she will be greatly disappointed if she finds out in the future that I hid such a thing from him. I also dont know if its wrong to deny my only son just to get married again. i love this man and he cares for me deeply. pls house help me out. How do I go about this?
12 May 2016 | 16:56
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First Of All,pray For Divine Intervention And Then Take The Boy In And Also Introduce The Boy To Ur Mother In Law To Be And See Her Reaction...The Guy Is Supposed To Accept The Young Lad In If He TRUELY Loves You
12 May 2016 | 17:02
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Ask him wella ... He's hiding sumtin
12 May 2016 | 17:04
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Everybody Has A Hidden Skeleton In Each Cupboards...If The Guy Or His Mum Rejected You,then Let Go,thats Not The Family God Destined For You
12 May 2016 | 17:04
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speechless
12 May 2016 | 17:08
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erhmmm...
12 May 2016 | 17:18
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dnt 4 any reason deny ur son (ur 1st blood). Let d guy if he really love u he wud let u show dem(family) ur child. (its rare 2 see a lady lyk dis, oda ladies wud nt even let d man knw nt 2 talk of his family).
12 May 2016 | 17:42
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I fink diaz somethyn else to it than ya son,,ask im wella
12 May 2016 | 18:02
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hmm
12 May 2016 | 18:02
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Ask him wella...
ur son x nt d problem
12 May 2016 | 18:13
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Introduce him to his family and anything that follows is Godswill
12 May 2016 | 18:14
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pray
12 May 2016 | 20:15
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u dont have to deny ur son
13 May 2016 | 02:42
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all u ave to do is to tell ur mother in law
13 May 2016 | 02:43
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If u deny ur son,u'll cum to regret it in future,hmmmmm,some folks are really funny,asking u to deny ur son before he can marry u,jst imagine if u've had him out of wedlock,he would have (demanded) u deny him(ur son)totally
13 May 2016 | 02:59
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After suffering to train dat boy u want to deny him bcos of a man u say cares deeply for u? Think well & rely on divine guidance least u make unpardonable mistakes.
13 May 2016 | 03:50
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hmmmn
if he truly care for u deeply den he shld not ave any problem with u introducing ur son to his mum. Tell him ur opinion that u can't deny ur son and his reactions will judge
13 May 2016 | 05:33
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they have said it all
13 May 2016 | 06:22
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If he is really telling the truth
pls dear dont leave ur own son in other to marry again
think of the future out come lady
13 May 2016 | 06:32
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If the guy's parents most especially the mum won't accept you just because you have a grown up son then i will advice you not to married the man.
What if after marrying the guy, the parent finds out that you had a son with your late husband, have you ever thought of what their reaction might be? They might even send you packing
13 May 2016 | 07:06
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if he realy luv u , he will acpt ur son wether his family like it or not
13 May 2016 | 07:35
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Dat guy has a deeper secret, don't deny ur child bcos of him.
He said dat just for his selfish interest
13 May 2016 | 08:34
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Hez 2 marry u with all ur challenges... So y hiding ur boy?
13 May 2016 | 13:30
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pls don't even tink of denying ur own blood cos of marriage n if d guy in quest truly love u, he WL
find a way to convince his parents abt it. n b4 make any decision now seek d face of God
13 May 2016 | 15:04
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Yean
13 May 2016 | 17:49
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If you deny ur son becos of a man... U will definitely live 2 regret it... Even ur son will forget all what u've been through cos of him and despise u 4 denying him.
13 May 2016 | 20:00
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If he can't accept u both.. Let him go.
13 May 2016 | 20:01
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telling you to deny ur son means that he doesn't love you wholeheartedly
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