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He needs your advice

By Dinky_Charmie in 24 Dec 2015 | 04:21
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[b]Dear coolvallers
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My name is Abel Okon and I am in a serious
dilemma now that I need urgent advice before I
commit murder.
The situation is so dicey that I feel helpless and
the only way out may be to take a life or two. I
work as general service man for a businessman
and I live with my family in his boys quarter. I am
just about what you would call the man Friday
because I act as his cook, cleaner, laundry man,
gate man, gardener and just about anything.
His family is not in Nigeria and he alternates
traveling and staying here, so most of the time,
my family is the only one that lives in his
mansion.
But my boss has done me more harm than good
as he has taken over my wife, Rosemary, and
even got her pregnant » .
Though Rose and I are not married officially, we
have been living together for five years and she
has two children for me and her family knows me
and I have been praying for things to get better so
that I could go to her home and do the right thing.
But as it stands, she has stabbed me in the back.
I noticed that wehn my boss came back last
December, he bought so many things for her and
my children and I was so grateful. Little did I
know that he had an ulterior motive.
Another things struck me because anytime he was
at home, he would send me on errands that would
take me to far places and sometimes, I would be
away for hours.
My first child once told me that anytime I went
out, my boss would invite his mother to do
something for him and she would spend a long
time in his house, but I never took it to mind.
There was a time I also noticed that she was
going into the main house at odd hours and when
I asked her, she said the man wanted her to do
one thing or the other for him and this was
something I could not ask him.
Since then, anytime he came, my wife would have
a new attitude, behaving like she has seen a long
lost lover.
The scales were lifted off my eyes last months
with my wife already six months pregnant and I
was busy making plans for the birth when my
boss came back and called me and my wife and
told me that the pregnancy my wife carries
belongs to him and he wanted to take her abroad
so that she would give birth there.
I was shocked when my wife also confirmed that
the man is the father of the baby she is carrying
and that they have been sleeping together for long
under my very nose.
He even had the guts to tell me that since I did
not pay any dowry on her, then she was legally
not my wife and that he plans to take her to her
village and do the necessary things before taking
her out of the country.
At present, I do not know what steps to take.
Abel,
Lekki.'[/b]
24 Dec 2015 | 04:21
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Abeg 4get dat woman...she z so stupid....and that ur oga z so wicked..he take her away from u just bc u are poor...bt guy u 4uckup o..y will u be with a woman that z not ur legal wife,this z a big lesson to all those people leaving with a woman that z not legally recognise as there wife.
24 Dec 2015 | 04:47
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I think you should just let go of her and forget about her
24 Dec 2015 | 04:51
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@frankkay @sirmike @ritagold @delight @jummybabe @pharm-vickymears Your advice are needed here
24 Dec 2015 | 04:53
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I can't just fathom the happiness dis rich men derive frm maltreating the poor.... Their z nothing 2 do dan 2 let go ad face ur life,at least she gave ur kids...
24 Dec 2015 | 05:25
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Simple has ABC,u too go impreginate her wife...... If you kill u shall also be killed
24 Dec 2015 | 05:42
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This one na strong thing oh Well, there's no need fighting for a woman that doesn't love you, cause if she loves you,she wouldn't cheat on you. She even have the guts to tell you that the pregnancy is not yours, so let go of her. As for your oga, is God that will judge him
24 Dec 2015 | 06:08
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[b]@skookum y na y would he pay evil wit evil is nt de right tin....na baddo... Bro sorry to say dis u got no choice dan to leave her she doesnt even deserve u. life goes on dont take ur life dere is many more beautiful gals out dere dat will love nd care for u more dan she does. U are nt a loser she is so far u have ur two babes........my advice is let her go face de future de future is bright it shall be well[/b]
24 Dec 2015 | 06:41
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don't 4get d man hasn't paid her dowry yet and the boss' wife isn't in Nigeria...so how will he do that@skookum
24 Dec 2015 | 06:43
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Dude i know its not easy to let go, infact its very difficult buh man u got no other choice than to let her go. She is an adult she knws wht best for her so let her go and train ur kids to be beta in future..
24 Dec 2015 | 08:28
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Let it go thou it's nt gonna be easy cos she doesn't hv a bit of love for u . . . #shekina
24 Dec 2015 | 11:43
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U hav to let her go
24 Dec 2015 | 12:18
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[b][color =red]dont let anything push you to murder bro.....forget her and move on with your life...Dont forget to vote greg billz for Mr coolval 2015 people....one love[/color][/b]
24 Dec 2015 | 12:56
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there is nothing else you can do man... The did has been done.. Move on with ur life. Alobam
24 Dec 2015 | 20:17
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hmmmmm dis one is hard gann o
25 Dec 2015 | 03:42
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Just as everyone has rightly said that you should let her go, before you let her go please try to confirm from her if you are the real father of the first two kids so that you will know how you are going to move on and who you are moving with. Secondly, don't try harming any body, just allow posterity to catch up with them. Thanks.
25 Dec 2015 | 04:33
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Forget about her and focus on ur job
26 Dec 2015 | 09:55
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Or beta stil if she really loved u b4 plan with her to be collecting money from ur Oga
26 Dec 2015 | 09:57
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well my own advice is letting go.. let your wife go with your boss.. better things are coming to stay
28 Dec 2015 | 01:44
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