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By jummybabe in 25 Nov 2015 | 16:23
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I have a situation that I need your advise. I married my beautiful wife in 2006 and we have a lovely daughter together.

Our problem started after my daughter was born. My wife became se.xually distant. Infact If we were to have s.ex, she would face down and ask me to p.enetrate from the rear (Not a.nal).

Then she would lie there non-responsive. After a while, we stopped having se.x altogether. I love my wife very much and I fear God seriously. Since, 2009, we have not had se.x and I have not cheated on her for a single day, not even to ma.sturbate. I am very successful in my business and was brought up to believe that the Body is Gods temple. My wife on her own part seems to have found respite lately in using s.ex toys. she hides it from me since we don’t share the same room but I found them. Don’t get me wrong, I am 10.5 inches long. A few times, I have been tempted to have s.ex with other women but I found out I couldn’t.

What do i do?how do i handle this situation?I am just confused and need advice
25 Nov 2015 | 16:23
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Hmmmn this one is very strong...i would advice you to have a dialogue wif ur wife,ask her wah's wrong coz from d issue above,u never mentioned speaking wif her over it...if need arises pls consult a marriage counsellor to guide u guys...may d gods assist u..Iseeeeee!!!
25 Nov 2015 | 16:34
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10.5inches long hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i'm short of words ooooooo
25 Nov 2015 | 16:39
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please see ur pastor or marriage councillor
25 Nov 2015 | 16:52
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Hmm, that's very serious. For me she will go on vacation to her parent's house.
25 Nov 2015 | 16:57
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talk over it with ur wife.let her knw dat u found out her secret. lecture hw important sex is in ur married life n if possible tell her she will loose u to some Oda ladies if she continues dat way. she might av a rethink and bring back d vibes. bt I must commend d guy, such guys hardly come by
25 Nov 2015 | 17:04
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Pherhaps u no the fire her well... I would advice u qo nd learn how to use ya 10.5 inches nail perfectly... Then Sit down and lecture her abt the importance of sex btw couples,nd when nex u both wanna mate,u must try and qet her to the mood by qoinq down with a 10-20mins foreplay...nd when bouncinq,u locate her Gethsemane spot and hit harder... *straiqht face* with that she'll come beqqinq 4 more.
25 Nov 2015 | 17:09
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I think d both of u shld go 4 counselling.
25 Nov 2015 | 17:22
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[b]Hhmmm... 10.5" Just hmmmm....[/b]
25 Nov 2015 | 17:32
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lol..@ibrams... nd erm...@pizzaro. well i would advise you to consult a marriage counsellor..
25 Nov 2015 | 17:32
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@Pizzaro u b badest guy o................................... @Besty u hv spoken my mind already,hw did u read my mind?
25 Nov 2015 | 17:37
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Talk to her and call your marriaged counselors
25 Nov 2015 | 17:51
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[b]woman shaaaaaaa chi what else does she want GOD gave her a husband with 10.5 inch long member..........WHAT anna lisa will be die to hav abi i lie @frankkay and @skookum[/b]
25 Nov 2015 | 18:08
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Seek for ur pastor and elders counsellin
25 Nov 2015 | 18:08
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Seek for ur pastor and elders counsellin. There might be a reason behind it
25 Nov 2015 | 18:09
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Chai @pizzaro,diaris God ooo
25 Nov 2015 | 18:59
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Ni dey ask 4 one silly advice here,go confront her ask 4 her reason................dx man gan self must u be mumu since 2009 Eeeee gbeleeee ooooo
26 Nov 2015 | 02:01
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Lol @Sonshine, i heard u whispering it.
26 Nov 2015 | 03:23
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you have to pray about it .. fast and pray
26 Nov 2015 | 04:19
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but that man shud enter guinness book of record .. this kind no go happen to me IJN .. With 10.5 inches .. maybe u do hurt her sha thats y she preffered taking from d back .. i ve heard a girl who called a radio station in a programme 'secrets' to say she wants to call of her wedding which was supposed to hold in a week time then because accopding to her her fiancee had a BIG PENIS which she discovered that week after she disvirgined her claiming it hurts a lot
26 Nov 2015 | 04:32
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so u need to visit a counsellor as they say .. also seat down and talk to her about it i.e start being a man and stop being too gentle .. there may be a problem u arent aware of which she may be silently suffering from sth u might not knw .. and most importantly pray and fast
26 Nov 2015 | 04:45
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Hmmm 10.5 that's a good one. But why would she derive joy in toys when the real thing is even bigger than the toy ?? I think you have to talk with her and hear her reason(s) To my own view, i think you are the gentle type and your wife need it rough. Some women like it gentle why some like it rough. Make it fun whenever you are making love to your wife, for christ sake, she is your wife make her feel like a woman.
26 Nov 2015 | 05:39
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well I think she is a lesbian, what is the use of sex toy when u av a man she might be hiding her preference
26 Nov 2015 | 05:45
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Chaii 10.5 inches long?? That one go dey touch womb o
26 Nov 2015 | 05:55
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Yea try sitting her down and tlk to her
26 Nov 2015 | 06:54
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U guys sleep in seperate rooms nd dat means they is no gud comunication talk to her ask her wat ur nt doin rite in bed.. Try to b romantic dnt jst go nd tell her demand for it, set d mood engage in fore play make her feel d love d passion nd desire in u dnt jst plug nd and out talk dirty, show her ur beter dan d dildo she uses wit dis if she is still d same den go see a sex counselor
26 Nov 2015 | 07:44
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[b]10.5 inches long [/b][color=red]ooroooooo ERROR!! ERROR!!! [/color]
26 Nov 2015 | 09:45
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first seek God's intervention,den cal ur wife n talk to her.Let er knw aw u fil abt d issue nd make er undastd d importance of sex in d marriage.Try to acknowledge d cause of er withdrawal nd also look into er association wit fwendz,dis may also alter d relationship u've built bfor.May d lord help u
27 Nov 2015 | 08:51
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Ok take her to her parentz hauz maybe dat wil remain her...her duty as a wife.
27 Nov 2015 | 14:55
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hmmmm
4 Dec 2015 | 05:29
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