Definition Of Friendship
What is friendship: to my unique understanding, Friendship is when two people engage in knowing each other and on the other hand.
What is Friend: A friend is a person who is very close to you and understand you.
Many people this days do modoola friendship as something else. in many ways if you must ask you see people today and call thems your friends. or you come in contact with someone you develop feeling for and you say its friendship. my fellow teens thatisnotfriendship.
These dogs you have to study things before you known who they truly are.
They are set of people who study someone before communicating with that person.
The main point is what is the good or real what we going yo Read about in this textbook.
Friend communication
What is friend communication: This two wards keep blowing many because they don't understand it remember whatever has advantages also has disadvantages.
Friend communication is the right act of having a friend and knowing the way to make friends.
Friends nowadays in our 20s put a lot if us in trouble, you see tenegers this days becoming fraud-stars, robber, their, or highway girls, I will say most if this is caused by wrong.
Friend communication
Below are the things we ought to look out for before having a friend or deciding this person (he/she is my friend)
* Background
* Age difference
* Ability of understanding
* Demand (is that your peer ask for)
* Academic excellence
* Gain and his/her achievement
* Material things and the last which is
* Decision.
Trust
What is trust: Differently, I will like to use similar meaning, trust is pushing all your hope or faith in something or someone speaking of trust in friend communication it is the pattern to trust the person you call a friend, but before that does the person trust you. There are extent and levels you will get before you can trust someone. Many friend are enemies today because they trusted each other and it all ends that the other did something he shouldn't have done or say.
Once you know how to trust then your friend ship is broleen, to be more clear with this they are levels of trust, no one said you shouldn't trust you, friend but not every secret you reveal, if you have a friend and you are together for your years watch out. This is because you do not reveal some aspect of secretive many children or tenegers are being endangered today because, the trust they have, it just like you outing hope, you can fly four stony building which you ended up broken your arm. So let's move to the need aspect
Background
Many of us tenegers do not understand what background means
Background: is the level you peer is, what are this level. Financial level and beliefs, or tradition.
It is uncommon to see a Christian child, with arherbalised child, even if this occurs. They are certain thing the christian child will learn. You can't follow a nature doctor without having something under your school bag, especially in school you see friends, ganging up yo need a teacher, or you see some if them not being afraid if the school displine, most if the reason are the friend, they follow, I can't have powers to beat my teacher when she beat me and not use it so same goes.
What are we trying to get out of this is before making friend know his/her background ''Hmm'' this is common, you see a person whose parent has money or are financially stable. Then you jump into conclusion that he/she is your friend, why because of money, so if you don't what to make wrong step in choosing a wrong friend watch the background of your peer.
Age Differences
To be honest it will be kind to known the age of your friend so you went get into bigger trouble. This is common among adult they see a child and call them friend, there must be something hidden at the corner of this person mind.when you choose the wrong age of friend then these occurs, rope, kidnapping and many more
Teenagers fall into this trap. but I well tell you parents must be aware of your friendship. and your friends must not be 2 or three years ahead of you. Age difference needs to checked among your peer
Ability of understanding
If you want safe and long ashing friend ships or a good friendship you must posses the ability to understand, reason what your pear have many Friendship is no Demand
because there is no understanding, Think of it my friend hold me we would visit the beach and something came up.I refused to go with him/her .it there is no understanding he will think I do not want to go .
Understanding is one common thing you need to have when you make friends.
Demand
Give me this, follow me, come with me, let tal, let's play, if this are much then your friendship is in a blast, trust me if these are too much or your peer is demanding then you are exactly flatter than a pancake.
I can't have a friend who is demanding I will make sure o leave that person to live his own life and when I do this that ends the froendship , your peer might ask you for the wrong thing they might ask amiss
If all these ocvur , your friend might ask for sex and you may fall into it trap
Let me tell you this story it happened years back , u registered in a site teuw life site indeed and I made friends but one day this very one asked me for something, what is that thing. He said I should be his partner, you teensvmost have heard of Gay ( gay is a kind of sexuality between two kinds of same sex) which is not in accordance with Nigerian Law the country I live, if you are caought then you ate a dead meay . I rejected his offer many times and I explained my reasons but I later had to block him because we he asked again after I explained to him
So mind your choices, because there is a saying "they can put you down to get up".
Academic Excellence
Olodo+Olodo= Oju Eja( dollard plus dollard simply equals to dollard)
Its always funny when I see dollars and another dollars together because nothing good comes out of it.
All least before you choose a triend , either one of you must be able to assist your seof , normally I do tell people that if I am seen with someone I am older than then I want that person to learn from me that is my simple way of living let be more honest the fact is do not choose a from and because he or she is beautiful or handsone , you will end up getting the last position in class like F9
Because what you will only do is talk and play which many of us thought is friendship.
Gain and Achievement
When you have a friend try to figure out his/ her goals in life to know if he/ she is fitted to be called a friend or your friend
Remember a good friend want the best for you.
Material Things
I want to buy this let get this when all this is much the absolutely you can't save,and this affect the future,traly you can buy things but not when it's much,make your good food .
See at first many of them are deceiving,they might hide their true self like a cameleon that changes colour but of you follow this step,bet with me, you will get to know their character.
Someone like me for instance,once,set my eyes on you I need you like a novel,but you can't ever know my character, people will say it's a green snake under the green grass ×beware
Decisions
Now its all up to you.
Your parent can't choose a friend for you .many teenagers today you hardly see them listen to their parent.
Go to me make your decision, a man said,change one man you change all of them . You can't be selfish to share it .
Decision is the future, the earlier the better go step back start again and see if you will get it right thank you for reading us all up to you.
