1). Never raise your voice for any reason to
your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2). Don't expose your husband's
weaknesses to your family and friends. It
will bounce back at you.You are each other's
keeper.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to
communicate to your husband, you never
know how your husband will interpret them.
Defensive women don't have a happy home.
4). Never compare your husband to other
men, you've no idea what their life is all
about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for
you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends
because you don't like them, the person
who's supposed to get rid of them is your
husband.
6). Never forget that your husband married
you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your
duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to
your husband, people may do everything else
but your husband is your own responsibility.
8). Never blame your husband if he comes
back home empty handed. Rather encourage
him.
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your
husband's sweat is too precious to be
wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the
purpose of denying your husband sex. You
must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is
very important to Men, if you keep denying
him, it is a matter of time before another
woman takes over that duty. No man can
withstand sex starvation for too long (even
the anointed ones
)
11). Never compare your husband to your
one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-
lover. Your home may Never recover from it
if you do.
12). Never answer for your husband in public
opinion polls, let him handle what is directed
to him although he may answer for you in
public opinion polls.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband
in front of children. Wise Women don't do
that.
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of
your husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow your friends to be too
close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and
on the dressing table. Out there your
husband is always surrounded by women who
took their time on their looks.
17). Your parents or family or friends do
not have the final say in your marriage.
Don't waste your time looking up to them
for a final word. You must Leave if you want
to Cleave.
18). Never base your love on monetary
things.Will you still submit to him even if
you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want
attention and good listeners, never be too
busy for him.Good communication is the bed
rock of every happy home.
20). If your idea worked better than his,
never compare yourself to him. Its always
team work.
21). Don't be too judgemental to your
husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She
doesn't even know that her body needs a
bath.
23). Does your husband like a kind of
cooked food?, try to change your cooking.
No man jokes with food.
24). Never be too demanding to your
husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it
comes.
25). Make a glass of water the very first
welcome to your husband and everyone
entering your home. Sweetness of attitude
is true beauty.
26). Don't associate with women who have a
wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as
the value that you give it. Recklessness is
unacceptable.
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from
the Lord, love your children and teach them
well.
29). You are never too old to influence your
home. Never reduce your care for your
family for any reason.
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped
wife,pray always for your husband and
family.