If you see a cute guy, but aren’t
comfortable strutting your stuff
to get him to like you, there are
other ways to get his attention.
Your looks aren’t everything.
Even though men are visual
creatures, they understand that
you have a personality attached
to your face and body. Here are
some ways to get his attention
without showing skin (or while
you’re showing skin):
1. LET HIM KNOW
One of the best ways to get his
attention is by giving him
attention. You don’t have to
shower him with compliments,
but at least let him know that you
exist. If you see him walk past
you, acknowledge him. If you’re
not close enough to chat, give
him a flirty smile or simply make
eye contact.
2. PUT ON PERFUME
His sight isn’t his only sense. By
wearing perfume with a
delicious scent, you could
capture his attention. Plus, every
time that he smells the scent in
the future, he’ll automatically
think of you. It’s a way to stay on
his mind, even when you’re not
around.
3. SWEETLY SOCIALIZE
If you don’t want to approach
him to chat, talk to the people
around him. If you’re in class
together and he never hears you
speak, the only way he’ll be
attracted to you is if he likes your
looks. By being friendly to others
when he’s around, he’ll see what
a great gal you are. He might
even strike up a conversation to
get a few moments alone with
you.
4. CONVERSE WITH CONFIDENCE
When you’re answering a
question, don’t trail off or make
your statement sound like you’re
asking another question. Be
confident when you speak. Even
though everyone knows what it
feels like to be nervous, people
gravitate toward individuals that
act like they know what they’re
doing.
5. ALLOW LAUGHTER
Laughter is a beautiful sound.
Don’t laugh at everything you
see, but don’t hold back your
giggles either. Men like to be
around women that are fun, and
that enjoy life. If he sees you
genuinely laugh at something
without holding back, he’s sure
to notice how happy you are,
and be enticed.
6. DON’T HIDE AWAY
You can’t get his attention if
you’re never around. If you know
that he works at a local
restaurant, and you avoid that
restaurant, you’re doing yourself
a disservice. Go down there
occasionally in order to see him.
Just don’t show up too often,
because you don’t want to come
across as a ‘creeper.’
7. BE YOURSELF
It sounds cliche, but this saying is
so popular, because it’s true. If
you love babbling on about a
certain celebrity or spouting out
corny jokes, don’t suppress those
topics in order to impress a guy.
If you do, and you attract
someone, he won’t be the right
person for you. But if you’re
always yourself, then the guys
that pay attention to you will be
worth your time.
While your lean legs and fabulous
face are excellent guy magnets,
your personality is equally
important. If a guy doesn’t care
about your personality, then why
would you want to be with him?
You need someone that cares
about whom you are as a
person, and that goes deeper
than your looks. What was the
first thing you noticed about
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