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Does This Girl Deserve The "Forgive And Forget" Allowance?

Does This Girl Deserve The "Forgive And Forget" Allowance?

By Mubarak in 22 Oct 2016 | 06:11
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What I am about to share with you is real, it happened to my
pal but I call him my brother.
I am sharing this based on his permission and I will leave
everyone to be the judge.
Let's call him BOSS!
Sometime in late 2013, I was here reading a story of a guy who
wanted to kill himself over a lady but I didn't read much before
I left the thread.
Coincidentally, I was in talks with BOSS on another thread
where he narrated what a certain lady did. Let's call her
VULTURE.
BOSS caught VULTURE cheating with numerous lies and
evidence. This resulted to a break up. Back then, we talked
about ladies and the things we had gone through--I equally
shared my own story as mine was still fresh. Thereafter we
took it to 2go and from there our friendship/brotherhood has
been waxing stronger.
BOSS told me that it was over between them, however some
days later, he told me VULTURE was at his place, pleaded and
explained. The manner he narrated it showed they were likely
gonna make up soon, which they did. I could have cautioned
him but I also knew my words might not have much effect.
This guy has large heart, willing to help, very straightforward in
his dealings. He never met me when I asked him for help with
money. Much to my surprise, he promised to send it and he
did.
Well, service to my papa land was due and so I left for service,
I didn't hear much from him as I lost contact. We did
communicate once a while on facebook, he is hardly on there
lol.
In 2014, I would occasionally ask after VULTURE and he would
say she is fine, they had been doing things together, he started
a business for her to manage and all of that. This time around
he was doing MORE for and with her, spending. Words he
used to describe their relationship then could only be used by a
guy who wants to marry a lady. In between that period, I
would often tell him he tried and he is strong for taking back a
lady that cheated on him.
So around this time last year, we got talking, one thing led to
another, I could sense something was eating him up. A few
days later, he narrated his experience with VULTURE. How she
used two password to lock her phone. Since he is a
programmer, he broke the codes and unlocked the phone and
things he saw were beyond "shocking". Nude pics, raw dirty
chats with guys etc.
Apparently, the relationship had to come to an end for good.
BOSS had to count his lose and move on.
I visited him this year at his Lekki base and things he shared
were enough to feel pity. VULTURE made him spend MILLIONS.
Talk about the business he opened for her, talk about the Honda
Pilot he bought for her, talk about the outing at the famous
Chinese restuarant at Lekki before Ajah were they blew 50-100k
per day, Talk about clothes, talk about, talk about changing of
phones, shoes. Just name it.
He couldn't collect the car back because he bought it in her
name.
He still didn't do her no single harm. He moved on with his life.
At this juncture, I have to confess and be honest, that girl is
very lucky. I doubt I can stay without maiming her if I were in
BOSS shoes. Even my ex whom I didn't spend this much on
know what I did to her emotionally. Till date, I can still feel
echoes of fears lol. You will find out why soon.
BOSS had to move on with another girl. They were already
planning marriage and I have no idea what happened.
VULTURE contacted the new girl via facebook after adding her.
She said so many horrible things about BOSS. Told the new girl
that she left BOSS because he was impotent and had no cure
(meanwhile, she was the one who refused to get pregnant
using pills). She said BOSS is a cultist, a drop out (but if you
have spent time with BOSS, he is actually smart and techy) You
would know a drop out if you saw one lol.
Anyway, just yesterday, BOSS sent me screenshot in which
VULTURE was begging that he forgive her and forget.
I asked BOSS what led to it. He told me VULTURE told the new
girl he was impotent and so when the new girl got pregnant,
he sent her (VULTURE) the result.
See the screenshot below and yeah, she is a nairaland member
as well.
Does this girl deserve forgiveness?
22 Oct 2016 | 06:11
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Well to err is human and forgiveness is divine... Without sin,there's no forgiveness...we hurt God so much yet he forgives us. BOSS SHOULD FORGIVE VULTURE NO MATTER HOW MUCH VULTURE MIGHT HAVE HURT HIM BUT HE HAVE TO BE CAREFUL OF HIS DEALINGS WITH HER.
22 Oct 2016 | 06:24
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if na me eeh infact make i no tok...
22 Oct 2016 | 07:54
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Hehe!
22 Oct 2016 | 19:46
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He should just forgive her
23 Oct 2016 | 00:29
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