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Hello,
I am a guy[21/m] ,i met this really complicated girl[19/f] whom I
love really much some months ago.We started chatting and
we seems to have a good rapport.But anytime I tell her we
should see, she will say 'No' and and anytime she says
'Yes',she will always tell me she has one or two things to do
and she is in a hurry. I wanted to be in a relationship with her,
since we cannot see,i asked her over chat to date me she said
'No' twice, she said she is not ready to date anyone but
nevertheless she just keeps texting me up. I got frustrated and I
confronted her that she is just using me to while away
time,and that I'm not ready to chat with her again. I asked her
that what was the real reason she said 'No' to me and I told her
that I dont care whatever she said that I will stomach it and she
said 'The feeling is just not there,i dont want to tell you because
i dont want to hurt your feelings'.I asked her why she most
times say 'No' when I want to see her and she said she doesnt
like hanging out with boys. Obviously, I was sad to hear it and
I just acted like all his good. I promised myself i wouldnt speak
to her again but nevertheless, she still chat me up and I will
break my promise and we start chatting like all is good. She
even lied to me,she hasnt dated a guy before and which i later
found out to be a lie.I don't know what she wants from me.Pls
advice me what can I do?What exactly does she want,does she
see me as a friend ,if yes why does she most time refuse to see
me or she is just a girl that uses guys like me to while away her
time when her crush is f-cking up or she wants me to push
harder befors she says Yes. She is given me a lot of headache
and she is slowing my life down,I promise myself i wont chat
or call her again and I wont reply hers,but I dont even trust my
promise anymore because when she text i just flow in.She has
made me really weak psychologically and emotionally.I cant
even asked a girl out anymore
I am a final year student in the university with a very good
grade and scholarships and she is in her second year.I'm
thinking she is just attracted to my intellect and thats all.Please
advice me on what to do?
