Does it Worth it? I was chatting a friend lately, a single guy who admitted how flirty some of his married women Facebook friends are inbox. How he tries his best to keep them at arms length and fearing the consequences of having something to do with a married woman. This is part of the Married VS Single relationship stuff that largely go unnoticed simply because most men will play along when a woman positions them for sex or the like while chances are a Single woman will shout loud when a married man hide in her inbox to cause havoc. I understand all that BUT the real question is this: Does that flirt worth the risk? Does the benefit(s) in that flirting,Or possibly meeting somewhere in town for a quick sex worth the risk, the potential damage if you get caught or when it leaks? I know what some of you are thinking right now; Oh, here they go again with the Gospel of "Don't commit adultery and Hell fire". Sure you are bored listening to some self appointed Facebook guy somewhere almost telling you what to do or how to use your genitals,I feel you, I really do. So I'll NOT talk about Adultery, I'll NOT talk about Hell fire, I'll avoid the judgment day, those are long-term consequences. Let's deal with the immediate danger, what could happen imminently. Madam, have you ever imagined the doomsday scenario if your Facebook lover decides tonight to forward your conversations to your Husband? No! He can't do that to you! He don't know your husband, how confident are you? Bro, ever wondered should the Girl(s) make contact with your wife and forward to her your chats? You haven't thought of that have you? You are thinking of hell fire and the possibility of repenting before then, I'm more interested in Today and i think you should be too, what happens next minute. Remember, it is NON of my business where you stick your Penis into or who goes into your Vagina, No!
Those stuff belong to you and it is within your right(s) to use them when or where you want. The issue here or what concerns the outsider is that you might be living dangerously, walking towards a landmine that could ultimately destroy you and hence you need to be warned. You spent years dating your man/woman, you guys eventually got married. You built TRUST over the years. You have Kids, you are presumed happily married. Your Spouse makes bold claims about your integrity. But, you are just one text away from facing a potential divorce or serious threat to your marriage, does it worth it? Just imagine throwing away the TRUST, just imagine throwing away the Love and happiness your spouse offers, just imagine scarifying all that at the altar of Facebook love affair? You quickly deleted all the Flirty messages? How smart of you! Congratulations! It is all over! Wait, did you delete the ones in his/her inbox? You see what i mean? Anyway, be fully aware that trusting your secrets, especially damaging secrets in the hands of someone you can't boldly admit in your home is dangerous. I looked at the guy and said to myself, how many married women out there right now might be kicking themselves if their messages reach their Husbands mobile phone later today? How do you explain that? It doesn't worth it does it? You need flirting, sex and cuddling? You already married, why not get it from your spouse? The grass often look greener on their other side but things are not always as they appear. Your Home, your kids, your commitment and years spent building your relationship is worth more than any Guy/girl distracting you out there. Like i said, this is not what you think, worry less about long-term implications like Hell fire and judgment day. Worry about NOW whether the relationship(s) you have established on Facebook could threaten your marriage. Worry about the consequences should what you consider NOW as a secret leaks and gets on your Husband/ Wife's mobile phone today. That's the Point. If you think you are going too far with her/him on Facebook and the chats are getting too flirty and sexy,Pull back bro/sis. End it now and tell the friend you can't risk it, it doesn't worth it. If you have ever had sex before, uou will agree that it is lovely, sweet and mind blowing. However, the moment it ends, the sweetness is over and the reality dawns on you. So does 5 minutes jumping up and down enough to gamble your long term relationship on? It doesn't Worth it.
