Few days ago I made a post to men...
Females I hope you are with me on
this!
1. Not every girl wants to get married
by 23. So before you ASSUME she's of marriageable age, ask her what her
views on marriage are. One hint, might
save
you the drama- just because she does
not want to get married now does not
mean she never will. She has other plans for herself right now, let her live
a little.
2. Just because a girl wishes to do her
PhD after Masters does not mean she
doesn't want to settle down in life.
Give her a break, and respect the fact that she has the confidence to take
that up, cos yeah, PhD is no joke.
There will come a point when she
would happily devote herself to her
family, and balance it out with her
work life. Her degrees, or lack of them, won't make any difference. Let her
study while she wants to, okay?
3. Just because she is 27 and
unmarried does not mean she's been
rejected by
many men. Maybe, being single is a choice she has made.
4. Having a boyfriend does not make
her characterless.
5. Just because she has recently gone
through a break up doesn't mean she
is vulnerable and available.
6. Just because most of her friends are
boys, does not mean she is "having a
good time" with all of them.
7. Just because she has a drink in her
hand does not mean she is an alcoholic.
8. Just because she is ambitious
doesn't mean she isn't a family person.
9. Just because she doesn't discuss
her plans doesn't mean she's clueless
about life. Give her a chance, alright?
10. Just because she is outspoken
doesn't mean she is a rebel.
11. Just because she comes home late
from work does not mean she is
sleeping around with her colleagues.
12. After a hectic week, give her some time to relax over the weekend. Don't
make that one weekend party make
her look like a she's a frivolous party-
girl
without a job.
13. Just because she is out shopping alone does not mean she is depressed
or
lonely. It's how she relaxes, respect
that.
14. Just because she is on a holiday
alone does not mean she doesn't have company. Maybe it's a break to get
back her lost confidence, or maybe
that's
how she is. Admire her spirit instead of
giving her advice, okay?
15. Just because she is a woman doesn't mean she can't kick ass in
military
school.
16. Just because she doesn't know
how to cook doesn't mean she won't
make a good wife. Remember when you were
just married and cooked chicken curry
which was um, a disaster?
17. Just because she likes everything
pink and shiny and fluffy doesn't
mean she lives in her own world. She can handle some situations much
better than her male counterparts.
18. Just because she is pretty does not
mean she is a whore. And just because
she is friendly does not mean she is
flirting with you. Yes, they cry, they are emotional; they
take things personally, and sometimes
over-react to situations. But this does
not give any one the right to judge
them in the wrong way. Times are
changing; don't confine ladies within those boundaries, no matter how
orthodox you are. There are some
who might be fighting this losing
battle, yet compromising on their
decisions and plans, just to please
society.
