Dear lovely sister
So.... your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or
getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life...
he tells you he wants to have his second degree, a proper
house and a bigger car first.... you sit there smiling with just a
birth certificate thinking you''ll be the wife?
With the little he has, you ask for Brazilian hair and Prada... he
goes to work and goes straight to class after work... he leaves
you in pajamas and finds you in the same pajamas when he
comes back... while he studies, you watch empire or any
Telemundo series, he comes back home to find pap and
chicken in the microwave everyday... the house is clean and his
clothes ironed and arranged neatly.. the only serious
conversation you have is about the type of groceries you need.
The only advice u give him is "Bae you need to buy new socks,
the ones you bought last time are torn" nothing intelligent
comes out of your mouth.. no plans of making your own
life better... yes you are pretty... no doubt about that!... but
so is every second girl passing by, Do you realise
something?.... you are not doing anything a maid can't do... he
is going to finish school and the first thing he is going to do is
REPLACE HIS FREE MAID cause he can now afford to pay one
and have a PROPER WIFE. That is when we are going to hear
your famous last words "I was with him through thick and
thin, when he had nothing, now he is successful he thinks I am
nothing"
Yes you are right.. you've always been NOTHING but a maid to
him ... My dear sister empower yourself to be the woman
your man wants to be with... a woman who would be able to
carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or health!!!
(Just saying tho, nothing of such will happen to your man in
future, he won't fall sick neither will he lose his job, I just want
you to empower yourself).
Note: Not all man will do this, some will still want you to be the
full house wife you've always been, so you might not take the
piece serious (For your mind).
I love you
