SUITORS NOW PREFER OUR MAIDS
TO OUR DAUGHTERS FOR MARRIAGE.
Why not?
When we devote time in training
the maids on how to cook well,
how to clean the house and on
good mannerisms while leaving
our own daughters untrained.
We overwork the maids and they
adjust with equanimity because
they need us to survive.
The maids turn out to manage the
indignation and insolence we and
our children subject them to. All
these make the maids better wives who can manage even the angriest of men.
Our precious daughters are
pampered through nursery and
primary schools. They speak the
English we want and know all the
cartoon slangs by heart. We beat
the maids blue black if they ever
ask our girls to help out in
domestic duties. They see kitchen
things as maids' things.
The girls move from boarding
schools to the university, do their
NYSC, Masters and get a job. Of
course, they are ripe for marriage
and you wish that to happen soon. From one relationship to another, the same story. The guys would parade and dump them. They are only good in bed, outings, clubs and red carpet functions.
The boys de-commit when they
notice that the possible wife cannot cook, arrange things and are very domestically untrained. The rich guys can manage as they would mitigate the handicap by hiring a domestic help. Not all guys can afford this for a start.
The upcoming and very sensitive
guys who would make good
husbands, fathers and leaders
would not manage these parents'
inflicted shortcomings. They would settle for well trained ones. They know the value and the pride in hosting friends at home to delicious delicacies prepared by a wife.
Not all your maids would remain
your servants for ever. Some of
them would finally do part-time
studies and like a train, get to their God ordained destinations sooner or later.
Like a perfume, good guys perceive well trained wife materials from afar and dump the daughters of the bourgeois like hot iron. Long time happiness is at stake. No explanation is given. Sometimes, the sack message is made through a social medium.
Let your daughters learn what you teach your maids to make them compete for the few available good men if marriage is important to them. There are few guys who believe that marriage is for better for worse.
Don't be deceived; love is an active verb. Yes it is. You love; you loved; and you used to love. You can also hate who you used to love.
Therefore, some men are immune
to pre-marital love blindness.
In practice, love can't cover the
stench of bad early formation of
our daughters.
Right now, educated former maids
are now cornering better men on
offer because they possess the
requisite or set skills the highly
perceptible and ready husband
materials need.
Mothers please take note.
Think on these things.
