I have this issue that i have been pondering on
for sometime now, and the more i think about
it, the more i get confused.
Its about this man my fiancee always call's her
uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her
grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both
parents are divorced.
My problem is this, everytime this man is in
town, she goes over to his house to clean up,
and will spend the night over there as well, and
this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on
phone, and she happens to be anywhere
expect her house or in school, he will start
accusing her of sleeping around, something i
am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than
a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring
my mind to rest when he stoped paying her
school fees for a while when it was reported to
him that she was caught coming from a guys
house by a friend. I knew that day in particular
, cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's
bossom friend, it took the intervention of her
mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that
if you dont know well, you might think that they
where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was
thinking, what must be running through her
mind for saying all these? I have seen her
selfies in this uncles apartment and most of
the pictures are not so "funny" as what she
wears around the house. Now today, the man is around and as usual
she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but
what is worrying me this night is the "
swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got
from her after all the missed call i gave her
earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights
every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night
in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about
my fears and suspicions. Your advice is kindly needed, as the
imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.
